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right i've read all the stuff about being single from my previous post and i'm going to a massive band night and i no theres a girl i really like there
We've chated on bebo for a while and i've flirted abit but i don't know what to do if i see her, i will proberly end up embrassing myself.
The main problem is that we go to diffrent schools, she knows some people that i'm mates with and i no some of her mates
Any advice?
:eek2:
And i no not to use stupid chat up lines
We've chated on bebo for a while and i've flirted abit but i don't know what to do if i see her, i will proberly end up embrassing myself.
The main problem is that we go to diffrent schools, she knows some people that i'm mates with and i no some of her mates
Any advice?
:eek2:And i no not to use stupid chat up lines
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Its a school gig, no alchol that i no of will be there
weed yes, cos i'm taking 4 spliffs but no alchol
At least if i can find where i put my weed
lol
Buy a few tins beforehand and drink them in your room, not enough to get you wobbling all over the place but enough to raise your confidence a bit. Weed can be a very anti-social drug, it raises the likelihood of you becoming anxious and chickening out of asking her. Up to you though! :thumb:
i've noticed that, got a good old magners with me now
lool
Weed makes me more confident i think
i've talked to people i havn't really talked to before when high
oh don't i sound posh
*excuse the laguage*
I just completely froze tonight, and alll i said was hi, really deeply and acted like a dickhead
She proberly hates me now!
I'm so good at talking to girls, *complete and utter sacarsm*
Tell her girl mates you like her.
I don't really see them that offten cos we go to diffrent schools
'Fortune favors the bold'
If you simply ring her and say 'Hi, I'd like to get to know you better, would you like to go out sometime?'
Whilst I always thought this would be tantamount to harassment and lead to me instantly being shunned by everyone, in reality people (especially girls in my experience) like being asked out!
If you don't have her number, go get it
But I think on the whole from my own experience girls tend to find outgoing and confident guys more attractive. Squeaky wheel gets the oil and all that.
Then meet up, get a bit drunk to boost your confidence and nail her! Lol Well maybe not quite but you get me.
Hahaha I could just see the response.
"Hm, you know? I could go for a kiss right now. What a superlative suggestion."
Kind of like suggesting a drink to someone who says they're thirsty for something but they don't know what they want, and you just happen to suggest the best bev for the moment. They're mildly taken aback by your sudden clairvoyance, but at the same time excited for discovering what they desire in such a rapid fashion:
"You know? Tonic water would hit the spot right now."
and we get on alright, i just don't no if she likes me like i like her!
Tuesday was interesting.I get told a girl wants to "do me and jump my bones" by the guy she works with.So,after not being able to go over straight away and talk to her I had to wait an hour of thinking in my head what could go wrong!!Plus,I had to do it with a load of customers around me and her friend just to the side watching everything!!
Seriously though,just do it.You`ll never forgive yourself if you dont even try and nothing bads gonna happen.
When your chatting on the internet,before you go just say "it was nice talking to you,we should chat in person sometime.Whats your number I`ll give you a call sometime."
If she says no then you`ve lost nothing but the likelihood is she`ll give you her number.
Don't worry I'm sure she doesn't hate you at all.
Next time just try and imagine your talking to one of your mates, maybe think of conversation before you see her. Stuff like, what you been up to/ what you doing this weekend/ this disco is shit isn't it? sort of thing.