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My ex has a new gf!
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And I'm pissed off because I'm pissed off about it!!
We broke up (ok I dumped him) ages ago and I thought I was over him. Think I am really. But its just annoying that he's got off with someone else and I'm still single :banghead:
I know that sounds selfish, but does anyone know what I mean? Please tell me its normal.
Part of me's like "good for him" and part of me's just doesn't want him to have a gf when I havent found a guy yet. Some dumb competitive thing, I think.
End of ramble.
We broke up (ok I dumped him) ages ago and I thought I was over him. Think I am really. But its just annoying that he's got off with someone else and I'm still single :banghead:
I know that sounds selfish, but does anyone know what I mean? Please tell me its normal.
Part of me's like "good for him" and part of me's just doesn't want him to have a gf when I havent found a guy yet. Some dumb competitive thing, I think.
End of ramble.
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It'll go soon but don't make the mistake of getting with someone your not too keen on just so you've got a partner too.
:yes: I think you always get a little pang when you see your ex with someone else, no matter how it ended.
I know I dont have any RIGHT, but hey since when are emotions logical? I know I'm being selfish and he's done nothing wrong & all that. I was just wondering if other people feel the same.
Thanks for replying everyone :thumb:
grrrr!
I disagree. I think you have every right to feel this way - feel however you want to feel.
What you don't have a right to do is act on it and give him hassle in that situation, but I'm sure you're not planning on doing that anyway.
Everyone feels a little cross when they see their ex happy, I think, whatever the circumstances of the break-up. Just try to focus on your more magnanimous feelings and be happy for him, and like others have said, don't rush into a new relationship just out of competition!
first you dump, then you whine.
man up and carry on. all I can say to that, as mean as it might sound.