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I think your best bet would be to explain to him you don't want to because you're nervous about it because of unpleasant experiences in the past. Then when you trust each other a bit more maybe if you want to try it again, you can where there's no pressure and he understands you're nervous.
You're welcome.
Thing is, I know that when she heads in that direction then it's a special treat and so I don't take it for granted. We're happy enough with that.
It's not like we're not busy with other things
Would I still be worthless if we were talking about penetrative sex?
So completely different.
Still, you explain why some of my female friends tell me that men are shallow
How is it completely different? Both make up part of a sexual relationship imo.
I don't think it's shallow knowing what I like - Bottom line is, I really like blown - regularly? lol
Why should I go without something I enjoy that doesn't harm anyone else?
But they don't. It's really that simple. One can be part of foreplay, the onther is the actual act itself.
It's not shallow to know what you like.
It is shallow to base amn entire relationship on just a single aspect of foreplay.
Shit joke then.. lol
well obviously it will put SOME people off and no, that doesnt make you a bad or shallow person if its one of your favourite things sexually. Id probably be put off if my man didnt want to go down on me, yet i have friends who wont let their men even do that :shocking: :eek2:
Its all about compatibility and shes not gonna be best off with a guy whos fave thing in the world is BJs, but noone can tell from here whether that particulr guy would be bothered or not can we?
Some would be, some wouldnt be
i'll second that. you don't have to put the whole thing in your mouth by any means so it shouldn't make you heave. if you do decide to just relax and enjoy it.. otherwise you'll make yourself heave.
but yes i do think oral sex is an important part of sex.
Were it Eva Longoria, I'd probably let it slide but it's not going to be (for the time being) so mere mortal women must abide my penchant for head.
I can understand why guys would be annoyed and frustrated about it, it's very important to some people but some need to realise it's just as important to girls...
jus leave him coz hes a user lol n e other man hu thinks a girl shud give head jus coz dey want dem 2 r jus twats luff jus leave em it dont matter wut da girls bin thru if she doesnt want to give bjs den she dont have to am i the only one hu realises it n trust im a guy hu respects women
You're annoying me now, and you've been told. Type fucking English. This is not the first time this has been mentioned and so you're coming across as a complete fuck-tard.