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Student opinion

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
edited March 27 in Work & Study
[As a support to another post I made]

What would you students think of a fellow (uni) student who starting seeing their old lecturer after they graduated? He's 13 years older but 'traditionally' good looking (I'm sure some of the other girls liked him lol).

Good things? Bad things? No opinion?

-Jess-
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Nothing wrong with that in the slightest. :thumb:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why would it ever be considered a bad thing? You're both consenting adults, you've graduated, it's a no-brainer.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :-)

    Just wondered whether people who shared my course / lectuers would think that way too, in a close-to-home sort of way.

    That said one of my close friends also has lectures with him, I think she just thinks I am cheeky :rolleyes:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    doubt anyone would give a fuck about it tbh
    your both adults and hes not in a position of responsibility any more
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    woohoo :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    woohoo :p

    well... what did expect
    :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Haven't you already asked this? :confused:

    I see no problem with it, as he's not teaching you.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sofie wrote: »
    Haven't you already asked this? :confused:

    I see no problem with it, as he's not teaching you.


    Kind of - here I was asking what other students would think about it, how they would view it, rather than if it's actually allowed :cool:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's unfortunate that it's got a bit of stigma to it, because it's entirely fine. People usually hook up through a common interest like a nightclub, internet community, society.. so what's wrong with an academic environment where you're both interested in the same subject?

    At university it was actually quite common for the young tutors ie postgraduates to be dating/sleeping with students, people would make typical jokey comments but it was completely fine.
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