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16+ what the hell just happend? (new member please help)
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so my girlfriend came over to my house today because i had the house all too my self right. when she came ver she was a virgin. but then 20 mins after she came, i placed her in th bed and we started having sex.... it was her first time you know how disgusting it is ( blood everywhere) but the thinkg is i didnt cum! after 15 mins she was in pain and i had to come but i didnt CUM; WTF is something wrong with me?? well she enjoyed it by why didnt i cum???????????!!!!:banghead:
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Teagan - not very helpful really...
As for the OP, we'll nothing massively unusual there. Give things a chance as they will improve. Accept that it's not going to be perfect first time, second time or in fact for a little while - you need to learn about what each other likes and dislikes.
Afternoon?! It was 3am!!
Fucking hell, that's even more unnecessary... Well spotted that lady...
I personally don't know many people whose first time was amazing and lovey etc. For most people it was painful and a bit weird as either one or both people don't know what they're doing. Such is life. It'll get better.
Christ, low expectations or what?
shit happens innit (are we allowed to swear on here?!)
Indeed
With my last guy I'd have loved him to only expect to come in that time...rather than the 30secs that seemed to be his best. :rolleyes:
As to the OP...it's prob just nerves getting the better of you. Try not to think about it that much and look forward to the next time.
Doesn't matter what age he is, some people are just unlucky enough to suffer from premature ejaculation.
I am now an extreme poster
I think most lads are worried too much about how long they last. Yeah sometimes 35 minutes is good, but if everytime you had sex it lsted 35 minutes, most girls would be in so much pain. Although it depends how often you have sex.
I'm more of a ten minute girl myself but when I'm in a relationship I usually have sex more than once a day.
Pain is good :angel:
During sex yes, days afterwards when you're pissing however, is not.:)
Lovely! :razz:
And sometimes you just want it hard and fast and completely spontaneous. Yeh. That doesn't work so well if it lasts longer than about 5-10 minutes.
It depends, 35 minutes of penetration can leave a lot of girls feeling a bit sore and tired, but if you include foreplay and kissing then of course 35 minutes is a bit short.
I can often last forever, a relic of the prozac I used to be on, and we have to stop because it gets painful. I'd rather not last as long, tbh.