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Phone calls from boyfriend

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
My boyfriend calls me every night that we don't see each other, and even though sometimes neither of us has nothing to say apart from "i love you", it's nice to know he still thinks enough of me to call (after 2 years together)
I love it when he calls, but personally I find it awkward when neither of us has anything much to say, therefore I wait until I see him to ask him how his day was etc.
I know that him calling so often is a huge way of showing how much he cares, but I hardly ever call him.
I don't want him to think that I take his calls for granted, what can I do to show him how much I appreciate him and his calls?
:chin: :chin: :chin:


p.s This has nothing to do with the above post, just stumbled onto the oprah winfrey website (i honestly have no idea) and found this paragraph about "adultery and pornography"

"Conversely, you may be hurt because your mate is looking at pornography online. You have good reason to be upset! That sort of behavior is disrespectful to the relationship that the two of you created. Talk to your partner. Explain that the pornography has to go?no ifs, ands or buts. Don't accept excuses like "Everybody looks at porn" or "It's just the Internet." That attitude speaks volumes about the health of your relationship. Your partner has to choose what's more important: pornography or the relationship."

I know this is completely off-topic, but how daft are americans really? I've got annoyed about porn before, but I've never issued an ultimatum!

Aaanyway...

Comments

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    call him first?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well that would seem like the obvious answer, but I act like a boy on the phone, and i don't like to call someone unless something needs to be organised. i'm not very good at small talk on the phone, even to my boyfriend
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Surprise him and send him a letter in the post.
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