If you need urgent support, call 999 or go to your nearest A&E. To contact our Crisis Messenger (open 24/7) text THEMIX to 85258.
Options
Girlfriends past history
Former Member
Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hi all, I have been seeing my girlfriend for about 7 months now, I have never taken anything stronger than a spliff and alcohol, and don't like the idea of drugs. (Please don't jump on that, It's only my opinion) She however has taken pretty much everything in her uni years. I can't stop thinking of it and if to her I seem a bit nieve and clueless. I know the best thing to do is to forget it and enjoy what we have, but I can't stop thinking what kind of life she has had including some things she has told me about being a quite promiscuious (Spelling?) while high. Any advice ? You guys seem to know your onions and have some good thoughts on these areas. Cheers.
By the way, We are both in our late 20's.
[ 28-05-2002: Message edited by: TheMusicMan ]
By the way, We are both in our late 20's.
[ 28-05-2002: Message edited by: TheMusicMan ]
0
Comments
Either way I don't think she'd regard you as being naive or clueless, apart from when it comes to taking drugs <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> Does it bother you that you don't have any experience in this area?? Don't compromise your principles just because she knows a few things you don't.
To be honest, it's not really the big mystery it's cracked up to be, just a few mind-altering chemicals here and there. Only thing I would say (though I don't even like it myself) is that you might want to get tested for any STD's that she might have picked up [emphasis] not that I'm suggesting she's any kind of slut you understand [/emphasis].
All in all I don't see why this should cause too many problems, unless there's more to this tale??