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Living Abroad

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
edited January 2023 in General Chat
Has anyone done this? Where did you live? What did you do while you were there? And how quickly did you learn the language if you didn't know it already?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I lived in France for a bit. Had an LDR with this bloke and stayed in Chatenay for a few months. I knew a smattering of French when i went. It got a bit better and my accent improved, but Paris (Chatenay is very near) is a crap place to learn French.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I stayed with a family in Elmshorn near Hamburg in Northern Germany for a few months and I also stayed with a family in Tirol, Austria for a few months.
    I was studying AS German at the time, so I could get by, espescially as they were all fluent in English anyway, but I tried my best at speaking German.

    I'd love to live in Austria or Germany permanently some day, but I don't see it ever happening. I'd also love to live in somewhere like Thailand.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    pill 'ed wrote: »
    I'd love to live in Austria or Germany permanently some day, but I don't see it ever happening. I'd also love to live in somewhere like Thailand.

    I'm seriously considering a complete change of plans (for now) and going to live in Japan for a year or two, which is why I'm asking basically. They need English teachers, I speak English pretty well, and like all foreign countries, the lessons take place entirely in English (you'd think our foreign language teachers could take a hint) so you don't even need to be able to speak Japanese (but obviously I'd learn it if I was living there). Seems like a match made in heaven to me. Plus I've got a mate who's already over there doing the same thing.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lived in Ecuador for 7 months.

    I already spoke pretty good, or what I thought to be pretty good Spanish before I went and I'd say acheived fluency in about 3-4 months.

    Worked in a web/graphic design company. Was quite fun and I lived like a king.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've lived abroad a few times in various places, the most signifigant times being Hamburg in Germany for almost a year and and little village in Austria for about 7 months.

    I lived in Austria first, and moving to Hamburg was borne out of that experience really. I moved there to be a children's ski instructor (The first month of living in Austria was doing the test) and also worked in a late bar three nights a week. When I went there I hadn't ever learned German before - if you can call what they spoke there "German" :razz: - but I self-taught for a few months before I went, took a course at the VHS while I was there, and manage to pick up a lot of vocabulary and improve my understanding in day to day life. I lived in the ski instuctor's accommodation, so it was very easy in that I didn't have to arrange anything. Especially since I had only just turned 17 at the time!

    After that I moved to Hamburg, which was really the time of my life. I lived in a really student-y area where I rented a huge old apartment with two Australian blokes I met... for pennies, really. Or should that be cents? We got all our furniture from the German version of goodwill and basically sat on our mattresses playing guitars and getting high most of the time. Good times. While I was there I was a chambermaid (worst job ever), a waitress at a Movenpick restaurant (better) and in the summer I worked as a rickshaw driver which was the best job ever. Cycling 'round the Alster lake with some really interesting fares, and basically doing whatever the hell you wanted all day as long as you were back at the depot for 8pm.

    Now I'm more grown up and responsible things are a bit different. When I used to take off for random destinations I would just up and go, and wind up where I wound up. We've had to be very rational and think things through, though we're quite lucky that Stephen has family in Sweden who can help us to acclimatise, especially since there are dependants to think about! He has managed to get himself a nice little job which will start in September, but in places like Sweden it's impossible to get a job unless you speak Swedish. If you applied for a job that required English skills you'd think you'd have the edge, but your rivals for the job would probably speak wonderful English anyway. That's definitely something to bear in mind in some countries.

    Are you thinking about moving abroad? Or just curious? I can't be emphatic enough about what a fantastic experience it is. Far be it from me to think I've had superior life experiences to people who've always lived in their home country ;) but to be honest I think it's a really good learning curve... and great fun! People generally have a huge capacity for welcoming visitors (whether long or short-term) to their country, and it's an eye-opener to see how different culturally, economically etc every country is. You wouldn't regret it if you took the plunge... or maybe you would, but at least you'd know it's not for you.

    I can't really fathom wanting to stay in the UK permanently. It just pales in comparison now I've experienced life in other countries. Especially Germany... Hamburg has got to be the best city in the world (though I reserve the right to change my mind :D).
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just saw you mentioned Japan. One of my best mates is in the middle of a 9 month contract teaching in Japan. He says himself that his address is "next to two rice fields and a frog" and he feels incredibly isolated, though of course he has had fantastic experiences out there too. I'm not knocking it or saying don't do it - DO. But do a lot of research into the role and the location. Research it, research it and research it again :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    briggi wrote: »


    Especially Germany... Hamburg has got to be the best city in the world (though I reserve the right to change my mind :D).

    Munich and Berlin beat the hell out of Hamburg, if we're talking German cities. ;)

    Mind you, I never really spent alot of time in Hamburg, which was strange seeing as I stayed with a family very near to it - we went out in Bremen and Lubeck more often.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    briggi wrote: »
    Just saw you mentioned Japan. One of my best mates is in the middle of a 9 month contract teaching in Japan. He says himself that his address is "next to two rice fields and a frog" and he feels incredibly isolated, though of course he has had fantastic experiences out there too. I'm not knocking it or saying don't do it - DO. But do a lot of research into the role and the location. Research it, research it and research it again :thumb:
    Well my mate's out there already, so I'd try and get placed with him if I could. But there's a facebook community of employees and potentials too, so there's tonnes of advice out there. I'd be wanting to at least do a weekend TEFL course first though, just to see if I can do it, even though they say they give you all the training you need.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It'd be really good to get placed with a friend. I'm sure you'd have a fantastic time, it's just that if you did end up in a shit place/shit situation then it's worth bearing in mind that teaching contracts in Japan and China are notoriously hard to break. One of my mum's colleagues has a daughter who went to China teaching English and when she wanted to leave for a different part of China they caused huge visa problems for her and she got booted. Still isn't allowed in the country and this was years ago now.

    I would recommend you did a proper TEFL course, in all honesty, or just don't bother. My mum, brother and boyfriend have all done the CELTA course in the last couple of years (and my mum is a TEFL teacher at Newcastle College) and I was always of the opinion that anyone could do it, and all this training was a waste of time and money. Wrong! My fella finished the course in May and he says it is the most he has ever learned in the shortest amount of time, the skills and methodology he has picked up are totally invaluable and the 6 hours of assessed teaching practice were just fantastic for him. All that feedback and seeing the improvement over the months.

    They will, of course, "train" you. That said, in Japan you are more likely to be teaching in the form of working through a textbook with your students so it's not as necessary to have all the skills to create a lesson with targeted aims etc as the books do that for you. It's worth thinking about, anyway. I haven't heard of a weekend TEFL course but I don't imagine you could really learn a lot in that space of time. However doing a month intensive course is really for the hardcore minority, I think it would probably kill most people. Anyway you should definitely go. Fly my pretty, fly! :D

    Berlin is cool, not a big fan of Munich. You have to give Hamburg a proper chance, most Germans I've met (from all over) agree that HH is Germany's premiere city. It's got it all... and the Reeperbahn :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I dunno, it's over a grand to do the full length courses. I figure a weekend course (which is actually 40 hours because it has an online section too) is a good way to prove that you're serious, which will help in the application process (though reportedly it's not the hardest thing to pass). I don't see how them training you up is much different to doing an apprenticeship in anything else really. The way I see it, I can either pay to learn here in a classroom, or I can go to Japan and get paid to learn with real students. But I think it's valuable to at least have an idea of the basics before I go, which I reckon a shorter 40 hour course will give me. And there are a huge number of videos and resources online about teaching methods if you want to deviate from the textbooks.

    Oh, and as for contracts, that's obvious. If a company is sponsoring your visa, then if you try to break your contract, then your visa will no longer be valid. But the contract works both ways. In Japan, after the first two weeks of employment, you can't be fired unless you agree to it. One of the many rights that immigrant workers don't usually know about.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh, and as for contracts, that's obvious. If a company is sponsoring your visa, then if you try to break your contract, then your visa will no longer be valid. But the contract works both ways. In Japan, after the first two weeks of employment, you can't be fired unless you agree to it. One of the many rights that immigrant workers don't usually know about.

    Is that only if its a Japanese company though? I have a friend whos going out to work for Nova teaching English in Japan in September, and I'm sure it doesn't always work like that. He went out there for a year for his degree, so hes been before but if you have any specific questions about Japan/teaching there I can ask him at work tomorrow if you like, he looked into it for ages before he got it all sorted :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Acrobat wrote: »
    Is that only if its a Japanese company though? I have a friend whos going out to work for Nova teaching English in Japan in September, and I'm sure it doesn't always work like that. He went out there for a year for his degree, so hes been before but if you have any specific questions about Japan/teaching there I can ask him at work tomorrow if you like, he looked into it for ages before he got it all sorted :)

    I'm pretty sure that Nova are a Japanese company, so yeah, Japanese law applies to them. The mate I mentioned is with Nova, as is the Facebook group though, so I've got plenty of advice about the actual company.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    briggi wrote: »
    not a big fan of Munich.

    Nothing beats a piss up with a bunch of rowdy Bayern fans in the Hofbrauhaus though.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm pretty sure that Nova are a Japanese company, so yeah, Japanese law applies to them. The mate I mentioned is with Nova, as is the Facebook group though, so I've got plenty of advice about the actual company.

    I looked into this before, and I was reccomended the best place to look was on the Japanese Embassy website. There is all the information you could ever want to know about teaching in Japan and how to apply.

    Just google it. :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I dunno, it's over a grand to do the full length courses. I figure a weekend course (which is actually 40 hours because it has an online section too) is a good way to prove that you're serious, which will help in the application process (though reportedly it's not the hardest thing to pass). I don't see how them training you up is much different to doing an apprenticeship in anything else really. The way I see it, I can either pay to learn here in a classroom, or I can go to Japan and get paid to learn with real students. But I think it's valuable to at least have an idea of the basics before I go, which I reckon a shorter 40 hour course will give me. And there are a huge number of videos and resources online about teaching methods if you want to deviate from the textbooks.

    Fair enough, I'm just telling you what I have gathered from the many, many qualified TEFL teachers I know. I will also say that in a vocational field like teaching, courses that are mainly online aren't taken very seriously at all, because it is all about whether or not you have done observed teaching practice. I'm sure you'll manage to get a job no problem, I'm just making you aware of how best to go about things and how you'll get the best position possible.

    Training up in a language school is different to training under a TEFL qualification accreditor like Cambridge or Trinity, there's no doubt about that. Schools have their own methods and use their own preferred text and you will be taught to teach to THEIR liking. With a UK qualification you are taught the EFL standards and the CELTA (Cambridge) certificate especially is held in very high esteem all over the world.

    As for contracts, you'd be surprised at the mistakes people make when accepting jobs. Things like minimum contracted hours (which vary greatly, especially in places like Japan where there are peak seasons for EFL), accomodation, resource support.

    Watch which online resources you use, a lot of them are really misleading and teach incorrect English! When I was helping my bloke out with his CELTA I found some unimaginable problems.

    The good things I have heard about Japan from my friend are: the women, the women, the women. Apparently they are breathtaking... and easy, but of course I didn't say that. My pal is a 6ft blonde adonis so I think he's being revered as some kind of demi-God over there. The biggest disadvantage in his opinion is that they aren't big drinkers and when they do they don't go about it in a social (read: crazed revelling) way. I think the women make up for him, going by his general mood when we talk :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I lived in France for a year. Completely different culture, soemtimes scary sometimes amazing. I already knew how to speak french so it just improved really.

    I say its soemthing you should do. You will learn alot about yourself as well.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I lived in Spain (Menorca) for 7 months one year, and 3 months the next year, working as a kids rep for a holiday company. I was really lucky and lived in a gorgeous 3 storey house with a roof terrace with 9 other reps, all English. Had an amazing time, but there were a few down times too as there would be if you lived at home. Homesickness was a killer sometimes, especially when i'd been away 6 months, but it comes and goes, like it never lasts more than a day or so...

    Wouldnt change it for the world I had some of the best times out there.

    I picked up conversational Spanish but im by no means good at speaking it. I can understand most of whats being said to me though. I wish I'd got chance to learn it better but everyone I worked with was either english or spoke english so it was harder to learn it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    briggi wrote: »
    The good things I have heard about Japan from my friend are: the women, the women, the women. Apparently they are breathtaking... and easy, but of course I didn't say that.

    Damn, you discovered my real reason for going. :p Hehe, cheers for the advice, I'll check it out. The online section is an optional extra on the main 20 hour course. I know there's a difference in pay if you've done a TEFL course over 100 hours, so I'd have to see whether it made sense to do it, but I don't have the sort of upfront money to finance it right now, and I'd like to go towards the end of summer if I could. And to think, I could've done thr Trinity College course for free at uni (120 hours), but I didn't even think of it as a future job option.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I picked up conversational Spanish but im by no means good at speaking it. I can understand most of whats being said to me though. I wish I'd got chance to learn it better but everyone I worked with was either english or spoke english so it was harder to learn it.

    Yeah, the advice I've been given is that you can either work in the centre of Tokyo, Kyoto or Osaka, and everyone speaks English, so you barely learn anything, or you can go somewhere a bit less cosmopolitan, and spend the first 2 months trying to work out how to do everything, but learn Japanese really quickly.
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