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forgive an forget?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Drink & Drugs
my girlfriend and a close friend had sex 2gether whilst on a gurn <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> , do i put it down to the pills and forgive or fuck both of them off. it really fucked me up. any suggestions would be welcome

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Pills explain their actions but don't excuse them.. thats about all really...

    Figure it out from there
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    dump them both, its no excuse
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I know when you have had something that you feel so good that if someone touches you it feels great but you still know what you are doing and it does not excuse what they did.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    at this moment in time i have found out that my mate/tosser has tried it on sober and been turned down. i have fucked him off but am still seeing my gfriend. it was in the early stages of the relationship and only the second time she had dropped. i really like her still its just whether i can carry on seeing her with that in the back of my mind. as for dickhead, fucked off 4 good - only problem is theres 7 of us goin on holiday in august and hes one of them, help me out.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Tell him exactley what you think of him, drugs are no excuse for cheating, then by the looks of things your going to have to tolerate him until the holiday is passed <IMG SRC="frown.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> But its one of those things you'll have to do for the good of your holiday and your mates.

    As for her <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> She wants hanging <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> I always put my mates over birds <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I SAY TELL BOTH OF THEM TO HIT THE ROAD,SHE SHOULD HAVE SHAGED YOU NOT YOUR FRIEND
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Im no expert on matters of the heart but I will say this, surely you want the best for your mate and at the same time find out if your girl is willing to cheat.

    So your mate had sex which most of the time is good and you found out your girl will cheat, so the way I see it your mate done you a favor although I m sure at this stage yo dont see it that way.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    binet-simon so now that you know that she will cheat would you still want to stay with her ....please give me a break
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've been there in your girls situation. If she's anything like me she'll completely regret it and would do anything to reverse what happened.

    Without making excuses when girls and guys are good mates and pills are introduced boundaries can become a bit muddled. I'd have a sharp word with your mate too if it's true that he hit on her sober, but just make sure that it is true and they're not trying to pass the blame to each other.

    It's a bad thing to happen. Make it clear that you won't stand by and be made a arse out of and you won't tolerate it ever happening again.

    Keep a very close eye on both of them. I felt so bad that I did pull back from the friendship with my boyfs mate and he did the same. It should be obvious if anything ever happens again.
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