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forgive an forget?
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my girlfriend and a close friend had sex 2gether whilst on a gurn <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> , do i put it down to the pills and forgive or fuck both of them off. it really fucked me up. any suggestions would be welcome
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Figure it out from there
As for her <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> She wants hanging <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon"> I always put my mates over birds <IMG SRC="mad.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
So your mate had sex which most of the time is good and you found out your girl will cheat, so the way I see it your mate done you a favor although I m sure at this stage yo dont see it that way.
Without making excuses when girls and guys are good mates and pills are introduced boundaries can become a bit muddled. I'd have a sharp word with your mate too if it's true that he hit on her sober, but just make sure that it is true and they're not trying to pass the blame to each other.
It's a bad thing to happen. Make it clear that you won't stand by and be made a arse out of and you won't tolerate it ever happening again.
Keep a very close eye on both of them. I felt so bad that I did pull back from the friendship with my boyfs mate and he did the same. It should be obvious if anything ever happens again.