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On holidays me and my b/f went into look in a sex shop, i seen a couple of things i liked so left him in the pub and went back to get them.
I told him what i bought in the middle of dinner and he seemed very happy, however that night in bed we wer talking about the vibrator i bought and he said he'd love us to try it out together, but then said he was too tired that night, which was fine.. but we've been home 4 days and although i've metioned it he doesnt really seem that bothered, i dont wana keep bringing it up if he's not into it but why would he say he'd wana try it if he doesnt.
I told him what i bought in the middle of dinner and he seemed very happy, however that night in bed we wer talking about the vibrator i bought and he said he'd love us to try it out together, but then said he was too tired that night, which was fine.. but we've been home 4 days and although i've metioned it he doesnt really seem that bothered, i dont wana keep bringing it up if he's not into it but why would he say he'd wana try it if he doesnt.
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He may just be a little shy and lacking the confidence to pleasure you with it, just get it out one night and start playing with it and jokingly together, he'll soon begin to relax and hopefully clothes will soon be off and he'll be busy experimenting!
Its probably that, or lack of expereience with them before. Some men also get penis envy with vibrators, so you sometimes have to reassure them that the vibrator isnt going to replace them.
Fair enough, I'm sure it is for some guys though.
Doubtful you'll get honest answer out of him while pushing/nagging him.
Try not mention them but have them near by in case he does mention them during build up sex. If you keep going on about them it might fuck him up in head and you'll end up pushing him away.
That said.......has any bird got the cone here and would they feel strange if there bf got it for them?!?
On the other hand he might not mind but not be particularly bothered about doing it, again, you'll have to talk to him about it. No one can blame you for talking to him, it's not like he's said no flat out after all.
An ex-girlfriend of mine was very matter-of-fact in announcing that her vibrator was better at giving her pleasure than a man could ever be. I didn't respond well to the "challenge".
But she was a complete b*tch.
When she's turned on by her vibrator, chances are that she will want to cock action too... rather than object to the plastic you should embrace it and use it to get her off. Trust me, it's worth it....