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Trying To Be Celebet
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I m trying not to have sex for year. My girlfriend is making it hard for me, however, thats not the problem. The problem is that i had a wetdream at age of 22. Since, I dont masturbate or engage in intercouse would having a wetdream be normal? I thought wetdreams were usually in premautre adults that have just reached puberty. Can someone guide me?
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why would you want to do that?
as for the wet dreams, as far as I'm aware, where you dont masturbate or have sex, it's perfectly natural. it's just your body keeping itself in shape, keeping your tubes in working order (or something) so dont worry about it.
Exactly what I was thinking
22, has a girlfriend who's obviously gagging for it...
I hope it's a good reason
she must really love you. i'd be going loopy.
and surely having a wet dream is more likely if you're not having sex, because you've got all these pent up emotions
may be you should try tantra instead, then when you do have sex again it should be mind blowing
And is your gf happy with this decision or is she just saying she is to make you happy?
Also whats your reason for doing it?
As for the wet dreams, when you get a build up after a while it will occur, as someone mentioned it's part of a natural process in a way to keep things running smoothly.
If you left your car in the garage for a month you'd still turn it on every week or so for 5 minutes to move the oil round, wouldn't ya
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What Why? And you have a girlfriend? Ive gone 8 months...almost 9 (oh god is it that long!) without. I dont sympathise im sorry.
ditto
Dude, you are fast leaving your sexual prime. Enjoy sex while you can 'cos you will have enforced 'celibacy' when you're older and have erectile dysfunction. :yes:
Unless it's enforced, or for some religious/moral reason then I wouldn't bother. You are only around for a short time, why waste it?
:yes: That's exactly what I was thinking! In this situation, you're doing all the compromising...how about you say you'll cut it down a bit, and she can increase it a bit, and yoiu can try and find a middle ground that suits you both OK?
The answer is NOT to deny you sex altogether!! :no:
I recommend a strong dose of ........ new girlfriend.
Can girls be celebet for a long time? ALso will they have wetdreams or something similar? Cuz my friend she said she has never had sex but she was in a relationship for 5 years. I was just wondering if she is lying or not. I mean girls are very emotional than guys. So wut do you all think?
I know a girl who has been in a long term relationship (not sure if it's been five years yet) and no sex... but then again she's a catholic and so is the boyfriend and they both believe the whole no-sex-before-marriage thing. I've got no idea how that is possible but I guess some people manage.
But if it's not that, I'd say it was more like a good friendship if there was no sex involved.