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Lads and their games..........
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Here goes,
I met a lad about a month and half ago, we get on fine and he seems interested when we are together but when we aren't he goes all distant like he's blowing hot and cold. He'll text me some days and others he'll ignore me. I mean what is he playing at? I don't know whether he is trying to keep me interested by playing games and playing hard to get or what!
Anyone else been in this situation??
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I met a lad about a month and half ago, we get on fine and he seems interested when we are together but when we aren't he goes all distant like he's blowing hot and cold. He'll text me some days and others he'll ignore me. I mean what is he playing at? I don't know whether he is trying to keep me interested by playing games and playing hard to get or what!
Anyone else been in this situation??
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I've had this happen loads, and nothing comes of it. I don't know for sure as I don't know him, but from my experience they are just messing around, perhaps waiting to see what else comes along.
Sorry if that is a bit blunt, but thats my opinion of things.
Chin up love, and go find someone who is true to you, and treats you the way you want to be treated!
lol, yeah my phone bill is always lower during the month of the world cup.
no exactly. I mean by all means give him another chance, see how he is and what not, but don't stick at it and let yourself get further involved and ultimately hurt.
I know how you feel love, but there are lads out there who deserve your time...believe me.
exactly, loves his computer like
I have been seeing this guy for about a month now, we get on great when we are with each other & he said he had been thinking about having sex with me all week. Anyway i just had this feeling something wasn't right now i had forgotten to take my phone out with me so i asked if i could use his phone to send my dad a text to say i was alright, what do i find in his inbox but i a text from his ex saying 'ive booked the table at (insert restaraunt name) for (insert day) it will be just the two of us. you know we still have a connection!'
what does anyone else think of this? my first thought he must be cheating on me with his ex.. (oh yeah he has 2 kids with this girl and they were dating for over 12 years) .. am so confused...
u are just saying what i have been thinking myself. thanks x
It isn't game playing. I do that too, but not out of some kind of malicious motive. I just have fun with that one girl and it's usually a good day/night, when we meet up, but then again I rarely text her, actually I stopped at all, because I didn't put that much priority into getting with her.
I guess he isn't interested, or just very busy or miserable because of some reason.
@montygirl: I think nobody was ever that close to the exact definition of a rebound you are in. Your situation is a paradigm (no sarcasm intended), better get outta here.
My thoughts exactly.
Good luck xx
:yes: TBH if I was with someone and we both saw it as a bit of fun and he constantly was tecting me, I would think he was either after something more or just very clingy.