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Hi
I know there are topics on this here, but I've never had it before and the guy I've been seeing would like to do it to me only if I agree, is it worth it????
I know there are topics on this here, but I've never had it before and the guy I've been seeing would like to do it to me only if I agree, is it worth it????
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Some don't.
Just remember to lube up first, or else it will feel like he is trying to put his cylinder into your starshaped hole (think kiddies toys)
I would say the other way around, actually :eek: .
But yes, I agree.
You might like it, i know a girl who has a vibrator just for her bum she likes it so much.
Use lube AND get him to take it slow until you feel comfortable for him to do otherwise.
I still remember the day when I screamed in pain and shouted "get off me, get off me". The poor boy
I remember once in a small b&b with my parents in the next room and me shouting "Oww wrong hole"!! hurt too much to carry on, i was in tears on the floor
Lube is definitely your friend especially for your first time (as are six pints and a whiskey chaser I found but of course that's not very sensible advice ).
Take it slow, and - as always - reserve the right to change your mind if it's not for you
But if you don't like it, don't worry...it might just not be for you! And don't worry abot letting him down or anything if that's the case...I'm sure you can play around and find something you both like....
:shocking:
I have on occasion had an accidental slip when I've popped out, and I think it incapacitated my girlfriend for a good 5 minutes.
But when we do do it, it's all good, havent used lube or condoms although you're supposed to use both every time. But I just let her dictate pace to me.
To be completely honest, most of the appeal is the novelty, I can't see anyone doing it very regularly. Lots of people have tried it once and didn't like it, on the other side lots of people do enjoy it. I'm not sure sensation wise it's as good as 'standard' sex for either the guy or the girl. But for the taboo / naughtiness / turn on factor it's great.
For me I usually orgasm better through anal than I do through vaginal sex, but everyones different and it does take being very relaxed and comfortable with the idea or you won't enjoy it.
did i say lube?
I don't think so
Awww...don't put the poor OP off before she's tried it!!
as has been echoed by most other people - i would say the most important thing is that you trust and communicate with him. you need to tell him beforehand that he can't just go barging in (haha) like he would normally. you need to take it VERY slowly and allow yourself to get used to the feeling. and you also need to tell him to stop if you want him to.
have fun.