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I'm really struggling at the moment and I don't really know what to do.
I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year now and it's going fine most of the time. I'm just really insecure at the moment.
I keep having dreams that he's gone back to his ex girlfriend or that he's gone off with this girl we both know. I had one of these types of dreams last night and it's been upsetting me all day. I know it's not real but I can't get the images out of my head.
I just keep thinking that he could do loads better than me.
I've not always been like this, just recently it's been worse.
Anyone else felt like this at some point?
I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year now and it's going fine most of the time. I'm just really insecure at the moment.
I keep having dreams that he's gone back to his ex girlfriend or that he's gone off with this girl we both know. I had one of these types of dreams last night and it's been upsetting me all day. I know it's not real but I can't get the images out of my head.
I just keep thinking that he could do loads better than me.
I've not always been like this, just recently it's been worse.
Anyone else felt like this at some point?
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Has he ever done anything to suggest that he wants someone else?
My self esteem isn't too good recently and i'm trying to work on it!
He's never done anything to make me think like this, so i'm pretty sure it's just me!
I've spoken to him and I feel alot better now, I think I did just want some reassurance from him. I just hope the dreams knob off lol.
but they are really really horrible and i can sympathise let's just both hope we get some peaceful nights soon