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Because I rock...
Seriously though...
I've recently immersed myself in to the gay scene and had a night dancing, anyway I met a mate up in Soho and we went to GAY. Afterwards she told me quite a few women were trying to get my attention dancing, but I realy didn't notice...
Now I'm not the pulling type, but this has happened before. Where a woman has liked me and I really cant tell.
Any tips?
Seriously though...
I've recently immersed myself in to the gay scene and had a night dancing, anyway I met a mate up in Soho and we went to GAY. Afterwards she told me quite a few women were trying to get my attention dancing, but I realy didn't notice...
Now I'm not the pulling type, but this has happened before. Where a woman has liked me and I really cant tell.
Any tips?
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Any tips for that?
Learn from your mistakes I guess.
And Namaste, have you tried handing them a bit of paper and a pen with:
Do U like me?
Yes?
No?
Don't Know?
And get them to tick next to the right answer.
:yeees:
*waits for Jomery to hijack the thread*
Believe in yourself more I guess.
Btw I didn't mean the post to sound narcissistic, but this isn't another woe is me thread about not being able to get laid.
I know women have been and possibly are currently attracted to me, but I always tend to miss the signs. This may be because I have dyspraxia, maybe I am not looking in the right places. I am a shit flirt too...
I mean I don't know if the rules are different for same sex relations, but what is the best way to chat up a woman?
because you are the only real lesbian I somewhat have 'contact' to: Don't all lesbians crave the dick? I mean they surely shove cylindrical objects into their fanny and in each others fanny.
Wouldn't a MFF threesome would be something grand for two lesbian? 2 girls who get it on and one piece of meat as a means to an end?
I think you have to be lesbian to understand the concept.
oh and sorry that i couldn't help you with your issue, congratz tho.
I think you need to watch way less porn and a lot more L Word
Uhm.... What?
Why are people being cocks? Have I worded something wrong?
I'm just asking for advice on talking to women and knowing if they like me or not.
Of course. All lesbians know that all they need is a damn good fucking off a guy to turn them striaght. (oh that is sarcasm by the way)
As for Nameste. I know what you mean. I don't get this dating/attracting attention lark at all and on the odd occassion someone tries to attract my attention i either miss it completely or think they've got a nervous tick/stigmatism/mental disorder
I don't think you've worded anything wrong and i don't understand why people are being idiots. Thought they were past the age for getting all giggly when the word lesbian is used.
Have you just started puberty or something?
So any advice on knowing if women do fancy you?
Happened me last night, pulled the girl only I didn't realise her possessive ex was a bouncer in the club we were in.
He boxed me twice in the face, and then chased me out of the club. Good thing I'm quick because if he hadda caught me he would have put me in hospital.
I gues, so if they kinda discuss relationships, ask what your type is and all that it could mean they like you?
I really am crap at talking to women, life wuld be easier if I were a guy (or straight)
I would say it's a dead cert. Alot of the times when a girl has explicitly told me that she's currently single, it's because she's interested in me. It's kinda like a green light or something, so you can make a move. I'd say enquiring about what your type is is a pretty good sign as well.
It wouldn't though, yo9u'd stil have to be able tot ell if someoen fancied you or not. You could just assume that everyone you fancy fancies you too.
What and suffer the embarassment of being turned down?
Like, the 'levle' is when they show so much attention to you, and it's hard to advise someone else where that is exactly. Someone saying hi, asking your name and offering to buy you a drink is probably not enough (but, in some cases, based on their body language, could be) - and then on the other hand someone talking to you all night and following you around you'd think would be an easy tell, but they might just like your company.
At the end of the day, I think if you think a girl might possibly be interested, and you are, makea move. If it doesn't go well, oh well - better luck next time. If it does, then :thumb:. But I think your dyspraxia will certainly make it more difficult, because it's all in the subtleties in my experience.
Then again, there's people I'm sure fancy me who apparently don't. And others I'm sure hate me who apparently do. So sometimes, it's just completely random. (though the person I'm sure fancies me, I reckon she does, and she just doesn't admit it to people since she has a boyfriend - she kissed me on the head ferkristsake)
Not everyone will turn you down though. It's the complete issue of all singles everywhere. Do you just turtle and not make a move on anyone, possibly forgoing chances at geat happiness, do you make a move on everything that moves, but then risk something happening with someone you weren't really into, or do you find a line somewhere in the middle, where you take a chance even though you're not sure - but only with the people you really like, rather than just speculative flirts.
I was just about to justify and explain my predication.
Do it then?
I did? but someone thought it's clever to remove it and just leave my easy to misunderstand post on the first page.
I was not ill-willed or sarcastic or whatever. I do think you are quite nice. If I'm sarcy, ill-willed or mean, usually against people I do not like, which is not the case here.
It was just a kind of consideration about instinct, that homosexual woman get off in the same way a heterosexual women get off.
I will withdraw it tho now, because I have virtually no interest in it under these premises and attitude that's going on in this thread.
Which bears entirely no relation to this thread whatsoever. I've sent you a PM.
hmmn, maybe. it doesn't have to be too embarrassing thouhg. you could say something like- I'mm dsypraxic and have trouble telling if someone's flirting with me, but I am flirting with you. It's more funny than embarrassing really and I can't imagine many bad reactions to something like that.
I'll try that!
I don't think it's much different whether you're straight, gay or bi. Maybe les/bi girls are prone to be a bit more subtle, more focused on words and the fine art of body language maybe than the majority of men?
If they touch you, say brushing past you when there's plenty of room then that's a good sign. If they talk to you about your hobbies and interests that are completely different to their own (and you seem to have nothing in common, lol!) then in my experience it's an excellent indication they're interested in you. I got chatting to a girl once who seemed quite friendly, she wanted to hear about my interests, though they were nothing like her own. I thought she was nice (though not interested in her in the least), she said a minimal amount to my friends. It wasn't until she'd left and my friend told me that the girl really fancied me that I knew!
It's funny, sometimes we can pick up on the subtleties, other times even the most intune of us can miss the obvious.
As for letting a girl know you like them? Smile at them, tell them they're sexy, pay them extra attention by making eye contact more often and more lingering.
I suppose you've looked at the articles about body language and flirting? Hmm you could always say what katralla suggested! :razz: