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wats a good way to meet girls?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
wats a good way/place to meet girls for dating or something like that, im not much a guy for random hookups. aged 17

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hang round outside girls' schools.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I find the YMCA is a dead cert for picking up nuns.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    apolloxiii wrote: »
    wats a good way/place to meet girls for dating or something like that, im not much a guy for random hookups. aged 17

    Go out
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Host some Anne Summers parties :D

    Guaranteed to meet women :yes:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Go up to them and talk to them.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah the YMCA has some of the finest chicks around.

    Why not join a choir :D? Sports club or something?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Parties are a great way to meet people. I met a couple of young ladies at one on Friday.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    College course.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    local clubs and societies, going out for walks, doing the weekly shop, the pub, speed dating
  • **helen****helen** Mod malarkist Posts: 9,235 Listening Ear
    Blah wrote: »
    local clubs and societies, going out for walks, doing the weekly shop, the pub, speed dating

    :yes: these are all sound suggestions. Another really good one is through a part-time job or summer job. Or getting friends to introduce you at social events or going on a group holiday.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Depends what you're in to... I mean say you like skating, go to a skate park, join a jitsu club, go down the pub, volunteer!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    On here?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    On here?
    best place ever imo
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    issue of a girls mag (heat, OK ,Cosmo)
    Beartrap

    Sorted. :thumb:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Street corners?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lacy wrote: »
    Street corners?

    :yes:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    At clubs and parties. Alcohol always helps me find a lady :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Calvin wrote: »
    :yes:

    I've found ladies on street corners the friendliest women you could meet.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lacy wrote: »
    I've found ladies on street corners the friendliest women you could meet.

    :yes: yep, they are great at starting a conversation

    :thumb:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lacy wrote: »
    I've found ladies on street corners the friendliest women you could meet.
    Wow.. you hang on street corners :O
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Calvin wrote: »
    :yes: yep, they are great at starting a conversation

    :thumb:

    Yep, at least they get straight to the point.

    "Oi, you wanna fuck?"
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you have been unsuccessful in clubs and parties so far then it probably means that in a crowd situation you are not a hit with the ladies. In that case it's probably not the best way to find one.

    Your better chance is to take part in other activities where you are likely to meet women. Amateur dramatics is possibly one of the best alternatives.

    In any case it is good to take up some activities for their own sake, and be confident about who you are and what you do. That way, when you do meet a young lady you might actually show up as confident in who you are, and you are likely to appear more attractive.

    You should probably take up some sport activity. Get yourself fit.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    pill 'ed wrote: »
    Yep, at least they get straight to the point.

    "Oi, you wanna fuck?"

    And she may even introduce you to her friends :D , who will all be just as friendly

    :thumb:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    pill 'ed wrote: »
    At clubs and parties. Alcohol always helps me find a lady :)

    lol
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    issue of a girls mag (heat, OK ,Cosmo)
    Beartrap

    Sorted. :thumb:

    :lol: Wouldnt work for me though, I hate girlie mags.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :lol: Wouldnt work for me though, I hate girlie mags.

    ok then, um, kerrang?
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