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Are they worht pursuing
Met a few girls recently but don't know if they are worth it. They all say they like me, whether they actually mean it for real is a different matter. Does chatting on the internet reflect real feelings?
Met a few girls recently but don't know if they are worth it. They all say they like me, whether they actually mean it for real is a different matter. Does chatting on the internet reflect real feelings?
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Unless they're in Australia. Net-only relationships are pointless.
However, for a proper relationship to develop I think most people prefer to actually meet the person they've chatted to online.
You might find these articles interesting:
Netmates dos and don'ts
Make friends online
Meeting offline
Pulling online
Have fun and keep your wits about you
Its picking at me because all 3 have come along at the same time. I ll go into more detail if you guys/girls ask
Aye, if you're not going to meet then you're as well sticking your knob in your USB port.
I don't think trying to go and pull online is the best method, but then I don't think going all out to pull in the real world is a great idea either. If you're intent on it then just be yourself and chat to people like you'd do if you were out or whatever.
The one online thing I had was somebody I'd known for a while and neither of us set out to pull each other and we met up once we realised there was something sort of maybe happening. You're probably better off leaving all the romantic and the plans to shag stuff till you meet, because it only adds pressure you don't need.
Yeah, it wasnt intentional at all. I didnt go out to pull them at all. I do agree with you on the romantic/shag stuff thing. I think it does, i suppose just hanging out is best to make things more stress free.
What, like camping out all night at Buchanan bus station?
Is there something i should know?? lol
Nah, distance isnt a problem unless they live in a different country!
I ve got my car and i d relish the chance to drive up the country lol
it was a net r'ship, it worked out
You must have a very, very odd shaped knob.
What about all my friends on livejournal!!!
I've had internet friendships, I have had one or two before, but I don't know, unless you meet up in a shortish timeframe and make it a 'proper' relationship then it probably wont go anywhere.
But then again, maybe it's not important that it goes anywhere. Maybe the reassurance that someone loves you is enough. Or at least believing they do, to give you self confidence for when they or you find someone 'IRL'.
I hope that wasn't you fishing for photos.
Sweet cheeks, if yer offerin' I'm acceptin'.
It's a shame I wasn't then, eh?
Isn't there a bottle of salad cream you should be "exploring your sexuality" with anyway?
I'll never, ever get over it.
All my exploring's done.. Think of me as Columbus, and poontang as my America.
Talking to people in the flesh is better.
I made a good freind when I was younger in the habo hotel, that young peoples place (highly moderated and safe etc) & got to know her pretty well, but I'm not sure I woulda met up with her.
You have the added confidence of anonymity.
I'm more inclined to be myself when chatting virtually.
I tend to be a little more uninhibited than I would otherwise be,
but that's about it.
I met a guy on the net a while back and we were together 2 years.
So yah, I think it's a pretty valid way of communicating.
Good luck n such
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