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Feeling weird when hearing about sex

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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Anyone else get strange feelings regarding sex sometimes?

I don't mean horny or owt.

For example I am at work and just moments ago was told, that one of our colleagues warned the cleaners that people had been heard having sex in the shower either this morning or on friday.

I didn't even know this place had showers!

But anyway I just got a weird feeling in the gut. It happens at other times to, like in a club and people are getting off right in front of me or even the odd tv show.

maybe I said too much...

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I can get embarrassed when i hear others doing in, for example, in the other room. or if im watching tv with housemates and a brief sex scene comes up.
    Although i feel more embarrassed when im at home watch tv with parents and it happens...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yes that can be awkard.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    More funny than awkward.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Doomsday wrote: »
    Anyone else get strange feelings regarding sex sometimes?

    I don't mean horny or owt ....

    I think it is the spurt of an andrenalin causing this at the thought of sex. You may not recognise it as such, but I think this is basic arousal (you don't neccessarily need to get a boner to be in this state).
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Teagan wrote: »
    I think it is the spurt of an andrenalin causing this at the thought of sex. You may not recognise it as such, but I think this is basic arousal (you don't neccessarily need to get a boner to be in this state).

    hmmm

    its just a werid feeling, doesn't happen all the time, wasn't a smuch this morning as other times.

    Examples of when it happend included actaully seeing 2 people have sex in public and watching 1 sex scene in Nip/tuck.

    its strnage coz Nip/tuck is full of sex and it never bothers me bbut just one scene made me feel strange.

    Oh I had a dream last week and it was of a TV show and one the chacters had sex in the dream and I woke up feeling really weird about it.

    Its kind of a down feeling bu tnot.

    its strange,
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Isn't it just a kind of slightly guilty feeling of voyeurism or something along those lines.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When I was at school this girl in my sex ed class used to faint every time the word vagina or penis was said. We all used to sit watching her waiting for her to put her hand up and say "I'm feeling queezy again.." Everyone used to shout "PENIS!".. Like when you play that bogey game. How we laughed..We looked forward to that class so much :razz:

    Ohh how I miss those days..
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    haha thats just wack!!

    Hmm, well I watch porn without feeling that way???
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Young and sexy wrote: »
    How we laughed..We looked forward to that class so much :razz:

    Ohh how I miss those days..

    Why, yes! Way, way back in ... erm ... 2005? ;):p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Teagan wrote: »
    Why, yes! Way, way back in ... erm ... 2005? ;):p

    2003, actually :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nelly_bar wrote: »
    I can get embarrassed when i hear others doing in, for example, in the other room. or if im watching tv with housemates and a brief sex scene comes up.

    Totally, I get really funny if there's sex on nudity on tv, don't know why though because in real life I love sex (with me and my girlfriend) and am quite dirty. I get that same feeling in my gut too, don't know what it is, embarrasment? who knows?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    glad to knwo I ain't the only one.

    I wondered if its specific charcters on tv, whether I had some sort of attraction to them and that was it (werid and sad I know) I am just theorizing.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    red_jelly wrote: »
    Totally, I get really funny if there's sex on nudity on tv, don't know why though because in real life I love sex (with me and my girlfriend) and am quite dirty. I get that same feeling in my gut too, don't know what it is, embarrasment? who knows?

    I hate TV (straight) sex scenes, not only are they are total turn off for me but i always have to look away. I enjoy straight sex with my fiance in RL, but i can't watch it. I have no problems watching two guys are two girls get it on though.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah i get that too, i think it's normal.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    is that the same if people get off in front of you?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i had to hear friends get it on like 3 feet away from me and there was only a thin wall between and it was a terrible feeling. and i would never want to see people get it on in front of me.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Doomsday wrote: »
    For example I am at work and just moments ago was told, that one of our colleagues warned the cleaners that people had been heard having sex in the shower either this morning or on friday.
    Where did I put that application form?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    We were watching a film in uni last week and there was full on sex scenes and full on female and male nudity...I have to admit I was a bit embarrassed, probably because I was sittin' with a few friends, but yet I was still seriously turned on by it...
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