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what is sexy
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what do you find sexy?
i think confidence, eyes, muscles and a good sense of humour
i think confidence, eyes, muscles and a good sense of humour
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with the current man, its most things about him, from the way he walks, voice, hair, body, clothes, cheek dimples, eyes...you name it i probably find it sexy.
Often with me though its hair and shoulders, arms and hands.
Muscles
Dark eyes or blue eyes with dark eyelashes
Confidence
A nice grabbable arse
I also think it's amazingly sexy if a girl totally doesn't realise how fit she is, like if you give her a compliment she says don't be silly and just smiles and just thinks you're just saying it to be nice.
I think its really annoying when someone can't accept compliments actually. I've always been taught to accept them graciously and say thank you rather than 'ooh no I'm not' etc.
Well yeah, if she's just doing it to get more compliments "But you are gorgeous though!" then that's silly.
I mean if she just giggles shyly and stuff, and has an air being lovely looking but completely unaware of it, then that = win :thumb:
Yep, it gives ugly fucks like us a chance
:yes:
It's like if she doesn't realise she's God's gift, but she is. Like if you said that she looks fit as fuck (or words to that effect) then it wouldn't go to her head and turn her into Paris Hilton.
:thumb:
I agree with Bri about that compliment thing. I rather have her accept it, but if she shyly turns down her head, blushes and say "thank you..." (bit exaggerated situation, but...) that's TEH SEX.
a genuine smile.
If you tell a girl something, like something nerdy or make her a compliment and she remembers months/years later... Like, when you are together with that girl and she comes up, "can you remember on 21st december 2004 where you made me that compliment? Since that very day I adored you."
Or, "Hey matt, can you remember when you told me the functionality of planetary-gearing of a 3-gear motor?" (when it was aaages back), that gives me the feeling she listens to me
God I'm soppy today
Have to say, this is all a big relief to hear (from the blokes)....was beginning to believe all blokes really did seem to go for the fake, attention seeking girls....they always seem to get the men!! But nice to see there ARE some real men out there who go for more than the obvious....good on you!!! :thumb:
People that take things too seriously are so un sexy.
As long as they're not clingy, manipulative, stoney or too up themselves to slum it in a muddy field they're normally good for me.
Couldnt agree more ! However, not all birds have your viewpoint Lacy, I dont understand girls (im sure lads do it too, just going from my POV) who will flirt/be cheeky a little and when you respond be snobby/uptight about it?!
Or maybe those times, I was using poor responses lol
Laughter can get me in bed!
Hope you're tickleish ..