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Things that turn you on, but maybe they shouldn't?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Since we have a what tursn you on post, I thought, why not expand on that idea and ask what turns you people on, that you think maybe shouldn't?

whats your secret fetish?

Whats your little turn on you keep hidden?

share all lol.
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You answer first. Its only polite :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nooo!!

    ok, well I say one maybe...

    I am a very giving guy in bed and a decent guy to boot. Not a lad player type and nor the rough type.

    But upon getting chatting to a girl last year for a good while, and talking sexually and meeting uup for sex and finding out what she into beforehand, I discovered my "rougher side".

    She really got off on having hands round her throat and had given me clearance to do this with her.

    when we meet up, amongst a bunch of stuff we did, I did that and she loved it and so did I.

    at some points I was squeezing her neck as hard as I could and she never said stop or nor panicked or owt like that but just took it and loved it.

    So I do wonder if I should enjoy doing that, coz essentially is strangling.


    anyway your turn lipsy! :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I guess its more to do with you getting off on something that she is enjoying. Rather than you getting off on strangling someone. If she didn't like it I doubt you would have either.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    aye thats true. i do like to please the girl.

    so anyway lipsy, your turn :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Mine's kitchen tables!!! Don't know why...if I see an especially solid looking wooden one, I just imagine being taken on it....despite having never been taken on a kitchen table in my life. Really strange!! Feels like it's the furniture that's turning me on, which in turn makes me feel like a bit of a freak!!! :o
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    haha awww.

    I did a girl on her family's kitchen table once...it was fun ;):yum:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Fuck all weird turns me on u fruit cakes :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Aww...great!! :thumb:

    Yeah..think I must actually live out that lil fantasy...otherwise I will begin to develop a bit of an unhealthy passion for the furniture in question....!!But do just find kitchens generally sexy (which I'm sure isn't uncommon really)....always find my mind turning to sex when I'm doing the dishes too!! Wonder what the link is??
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    VinylVicky wrote: »
    Fuck all weird turns me on u fruit cakes :p

    :lol:

    Awww....come on...everyone's got something a bit weird they like!!! :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    HanHan wrote: »
    :lol:

    Awww....come on...everyone's got something a bit weird they like!!! :p

    OK I may dabble in a bit of clown porn....but that's as far as I will go!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :eek2: Wish I hadn't asked now......:lol:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    VinylVicky wrote: »
    OK I may dabble in a bit of clown porn....but that's as far as I will go!

    hahaha freaky!

    I never watched a clown porno but I did see a clip on a programe once, was strange lol.

    VinylVicky eh? don't have apassion for being done on the decks? ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't have a fetish. I think it depends on the context of who thinks certain things are or are not desirable, but if we're looking at it from the perspective of our society and the mainstream relationships, then I guess my secret turn on is seeing my boyfriend being intimate with another woman. I've done the cutting off air supply during sex which doesn't do really much for me, but I enjoy the intimacy of it.

    That's as much as I'm willing to share!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmmm...thinking about it...I wouldn't like to watch anyone, but being watched has a certain appeal.....;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Pregnent women, girlfriends of others...

    I think I was born into the system as parasite :chin:

    sometimes and in special circumstances: smell of (female) sweat.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Doing naughty things when other people are present without them noticing. My friend and I on the way back from work in a car with 3 other colleagues sitting next to us last night :eek:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Doomsday wrote: »
    VinylVicky eh? don't have apassion for being done on the decks? ;)
    Whilst dressed in vinyl - that's my freaky shit!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    go_away wrote: »
    I guess my secret turn on is seeing my boyfriend being intimate with another woman

    I cant think of a single thing that would upset me more than that!

    I dont think i have a turn on that i shouldnt have. The things i like, i cant imagine them being seemed as particularly out of the ordinary. I probably need to get a bit more experience in the matter, i probably have a dark side somewhere waiting to be unleashed
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think my secret turn on is too... something for these boards!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    At least let us know what that something is!
    I cant think of a single thing that would upset me more than that!

    It's not for everyone, and it's pretty weird to get used to another paradigm that you've had no experience with. I've already been in that situation and it does nothing to upset me so I'm hoping it'll continue :D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Blah wrote: »
    I dont think i have a turn on that i shouldnt have. The things i like, i cant imagine them being seemed as particularly out of the ordinary.

    Yeah...me too really...the 'dark' stuff I like (or think I would) is all fairly standard stuff I think....mostly bondage stuff, bit of voyeurism, etc...but thought the kitchen table was worth a mention almos cos it's not that kinky a thing...just think it's a bit weird!! :hyper:

    Honestly...worry about myself sometimes...really I do!! :d
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    go_away wrote: »
    At least let us know what that something is!

    I couldn't think of the word, it's weird thing to be turned on by.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote: »
    I think my secret turn on is too... something for these boards!

    :lol::lol:

    Ive been reading the posts but refraining from posting!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmmm... Speedos on guys, or those lyrca short thingies they wear for rugby.. To be honest they don't look attractive, but everytime I see Rich wearing a pair it really gets me going hehe..
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    In no particular order...being watched, fuckin other peoples blokes and having sex when and with people i shouldn't (ie if i had a bf).

    Thats the least disturbing stuff :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    haha

    come on lads and ladies. Don't be shy hehe.

    so go_away is a bit of swinger eh? nice to know.

    I am intrigued by Katrella now....


    I like knee high stripey socks on a girl....

    there you are thats me twice now lol.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lacy wrote: »
    In no particular order...being watched, fuckin other peoples blokes and having sex when and with people i shouldn't (ie if i had a bf).

    Thats the least disturbing stuff :p


    haha. I knew you'd have afew kinks lacy ;)

    naughty girl lol.

    any more?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hmm what else. I get turned on by doing things i shouldn't usually. Like someone that already has a girlfriend, or someone thats younger than me (over 16!), or someone thats quite a bit older than me (not over like 40, thats odd :p) or say lots of people at once. I'm not adverse to threesomes or any number above that.

    I'll probably end up a swinger :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    damn right.

    and your so young to....

    you seem to be into anything and everything lol.

    ever do vists? lol.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Doomsday wrote: »
    damn right.

    and your so young to....

    you seem to be into anything and everything lol.

    ever do vists? lol.

    Lol tis the secret to getting lots of sex. Doing everything and anything :p

    Oh yeah and letting your bloke know your fuckin someone else is hot. Thats guaranteed to turn me on. Although probably shouldn't :chin:
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