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Girl doing my head in...
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Longstory/short: there's this insanely hot chick at this place i'm working at for a month, then i'm outta there after that so no potential colleague/relationship related stress in the medium to long term..
i'm sure i've caught her giving me a few of those sort of stares from across the room, but she's really awkward when we talk, avoiding eye contact n stuff...
really doing my head in because she's really sweet/funny (and fucking hot) and i'm trying to pluck up the courage to get her number off her/get to know her better.
any tips?
i'm sure i've caught her giving me a few of those sort of stares from across the room, but she's really awkward when we talk, avoiding eye contact n stuff...
really doing my head in because she's really sweet/funny (and fucking hot) and i'm trying to pluck up the courage to get her number off her/get to know her better.
any tips?
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You'll never know if you don't ask! The worse case scenario, she says no.
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stop overinterpreting those glances or those being awkward or any other things women do purposefully and unpurposefully. It will always mislead you.
Ask her out, for a drink for a start.
Take Back The Cock!:yippe:
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yeah If you believe you figured out what a woman is doing pre-shagging-them the likelihood is you've got the wrong end of the stick. Takes a while after shagging to figure out their games etc I'm finding.
Best bet is to hope for group drinking night out and that way you can chat and slip into the convo about lack of numbers and not being able to keep in contact!
Shut it!!
You should write a book, it'd be a bestseller
:chin: Maybe!! Its only been 3! I'll send you a signed copy yeah!!:p
Lol fuck a signed copy, i want my name in the acknowledgments.
Yep and even if she does say no - you'll be out of these soon enough, so you'll not have to see each other again anyway. But go for it, just a casual drink outside of work should do to see if you click.
Nothing ventured nothing gained and all that. :thumb:
now I know why girls are always complaining why we are so crude, blunt and don't "get signs."
I used to get ALL the signs and misinterpreted them all, lol. Now I just act like I don't realize jack, so she is either more forward, or I at least keep my metal sanity
bit OT, soz.
:yes: indeed. You might find some useful tips in this article too. Good luck
Only , mention it to her and find out if she's free! Otherwise you wont be particularly happy if you have to organise it and she doesnt go lol
i'm currently in the "no, she's actually a condescending twat but i still want her for some strangee reason" stage.
Definatlely lots of flirting going on though.
lol I don't think I've ever been through that stage
you asked her out yet then? or her being condescending too much hehe?
you so need to elaborate!
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Yeah ask her for her number.... A good idea with that is to talk to her, find something you're both interested in (or pretend you like something she likes) then say "hey, I now a good exhibition/film/gallery/event about that!" and ask for her number so you can both go.
Or use the excuse that you want to expand your social circle, so get her number and say "your friends and my friends, Friday night, Wetherspoons", or whatever.