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50 Mistakes Women Make When Having Sex

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
stolen from facebook.

Only read the first 20, quite amusing, not come across all of them myself but they would be mistakes


1. Assuming he can get a raging hard on when it suits you. Contrary to popular belief, men can't just flip a switch and get it up because you decided to stop being a frigid bitch. Getting it hard is your job. I suggest you figure it out.

2. Thinking that kissing needs to be this sweet romantic thing all the time. Sometimes pressing your lips against your partners mouth while you get off is the hot. It depends on the situation.

3. Leaving him responsible for your orgasm. You know what gets you off. Tell him. If you don't, it's your own fault when he's snoozing and you're all wound up.

4. Expecting him to cuddle. Men and women are wired differently. Sex makes most women want to talk and bond and all that shit. It makes men pass out. It's a biological thing. Stop fighting it, and stop holding it over his head, it's not his fault.

5. Expecting him to fall asleep with you in his arms. That shit is uncomfortable after awhile. A little snuggling isn't unreasonable, but when it's time to actually sleep? An arm draped over you should suffice.

6. Expecting him to always lay on the charm and romance. Sometimes, that's nice. Sometimes. But expecting him to be all roses and candles all the time is like expecting you to act like a pornstar all the time. If you're not willing to do that, don't expect him to switch for you.

7. Being selfish in bed. Regardless of the shit that Cosmo forces down our throats, sex is NOT just about us. Get over it.

8. Using random magazines as a sex bible. I dont know who comes up with half that shit, but I'm pretty sure they need counseling.

9. Whining when he pushes your head down on his cock instead of stroking your hair. Know why he's pushing, skippy? Because you aren't doing it right, and have apparently ignored the other clues he's given you. Pay attention to the signals that he's sending you.

10. Not moving at all. Missionary is not an excuse to do nothing.

11. Expecting him to undress himself with any amount of grace. He's about to get some pussy. Be glad he bothered to take his pants all the way off. If it concerns you so much, undress him yourself.

12. Not shaving your legs. Im pretty bad at this myself. But if you want your guy stubble free, you better get out the razor.

13. Allowing your crotch to resemble the amazon. Yes, waxing hurts. Yes, some people don't want to go bare. Thats fine. If you like bush, great. If you have sensitive skin and can't shave, I feel for you. But for the love of Christ, trim that shit if you want him to spend any time down there.

14. Assuming that sex means a relationship. The only relationship you have is that he has now stuck his hoo hoo dilly in your cha cha. That's as far as it goes unless otherwise noted.

15. Withholding oral sex just because you're ragging. He didn't do it. Unless you want him to withhold oral sex because he's hormonal, I suggest you get some kneepads.

16. Expecting him to figure out what you like by what noise you make. Use your words. Have you ever actually heard what you sound like while you're having sex? If you heard yourself on tape, and someone asked you to explain what was causing you to make that noise, 67% of women would respond with answers like "I stubbed my toe" "I ran up the steps" or "I was putting up drywall".

17. Leaving condoms up to him. If you're sexually active and insist that he uses a condom, I suggest buying a box and keeping it by your bed. Not all men keep them on them, and it's just as much your responsibility as it is his. If you think that makes you a slut, you shouldn't be having sex anyway. Go back to Jr High.

18. Getting your undies in a bunch when he talks dirty. A little fantasy can be fun. If he treats you with respect all the time, you shouldn't be offended when he calls you his dirty little slut. When he calls you a whore and tells you to come, its his way of showing that he cares if you get off. Stop being a sissy.

19. Refusing to be spontaneous. I know this is shocking, but sometimes sex OUTSIDE of the bedroom is fun.

20. Dissing quickies because it's not some slow sensual ordeal. Sex is a dynamic thing. Theres an awesome raw energy when you only have 20 minutes but having to have someone so bad that you do it half clothed against the wall. Readjust your thinking.

21. Being too much of a pussy to tell him what is or isn't acceptable before you start bumping uglies. Be honest. If he asks if he can poke you in the butt, and you giggle and say no like it's an invitation, don't look surprised when he "accidentally" sticks his cock in your butt.

22. Expecting him to undress you. I put a bra on almost every day. I know for a fact that getting them off isn't always easy. Help a brother out.

23. Undressing in the dark. If youre shy, dim the lights, but give the man something to see. No ripping off the clothes and diving under the covers, either.

24. Refusing to get on top. Theres no reason men should have to do all the work.

25. Getting that bored look on your face. Men are more visual than women. Give him something to look at. Get on top and arch your back a little bit. Move. Do something to indicate that you 1) are not dead and 2) didn't suffer a minor stroke rendering you unable to move.

26. Expecting him to do all the touching when you're riding him. It's your body, you're used to it. Play with your tits, rub your clit, do something to make his job easier.

27. Being too afraid to guide your partner's hand when hes touching you. Don't like the way he's doing it? Gently take his hand and show him how you like it.

28. Getting into bed, getting naked, fooling around and then deciding that you just want to cuddle, then getting offended when he doesn't. Its your choice to stop, but don't look all fucking surprised when he's confused. You got him naked in your bed, what else did you think was going to happen?

29. Refusing to let him take control. So your a feminist. Big fucking deal. Letting him call the shots doesn't make you any less of one.

30. Refusing to take control. Its ok to crawl across a bed to him on all fours, push him down and crawl on top. It's not his responsibility to start things all the time.

31. Forgetting that he has a body that likes to be touched, too. Men have things like backs and shoulders and stomachs and other parts that are fun to kiss and touch. You miss a lot of good places by concentrating solely on his penis.

32. Ignoring his balls. Seriously, they are there. Kiss them, lick them, suck on them, make a relationship with them, just don't ignore them.

33. Leaving him to his own devices. Nothing is worse than a girl who gets you most of the way off and then bolts because she doesn't want to deal with the mess.

34. Launching into some speech about not being an object for sex when he tries to titty fuck you. Jesus Christ, just push them together and enjoy yourself. You get a great view.

35. Expecting him to handle you like a porcelain doll. I'd hate to be the bearer of bad news, but you're not going to break, sister. So doing it against the wall gives you a bruise on your shoulder. Look at it later and giggle at the memory.

36. Refusing to try things in the name of "making love". You're not making anything. You are naked. With another person. Making strange faces and weird noises. Stop romanticizing it.

37. Taking things way too seriously. Sex is funny. Actually it's hilarious. Somewhere along the line, someone is going to fall off of a bed, hit their head on a lighting fixture, accidentally kick a midget or trip over a goat. It's how you deal with it that really matters.

38. Throwing a bitch fit when he asks for a 3 some. Its the American dream. (I know my ex is reading this right now, so a quick interjection. One request for a 3 some is ok. Every 5 minutes, not so much. Know the difference).

39. Continuing a blow job knowing that you have god awful cotton mouth. Really. Grab a bottle of water.

40. Nails. Its one thing tracing them up and down your partners back. Its another when you snag the goods with a claw.

41. Bitching when you get jizz on you. You're having sex. That will happen. Thats the entire point of sex. Establish where he can and cant jizz and be done with it. Remember, it tightens the pores.

42. Not making any noises at all. Moan. Scream his name. Something so he knows he's the best you've had, even if he isn't.

43. Faking orgasms. Just. Don't. By faking (IF he believes you) he thinks he's doing everything right. And if he doesn't know its not working, he's not going to change it. Starting a vicious cycle of unfulfilling sex which will eventually be very damaging to his ego.

44. Not washing before sex. I know that sex is spontaneous, this is more of a general statement. If you haven't showered that day, and things smell a little...fishy...perhaps demanding oral sex is a little ridiculous of you.

45. Anything that involves inserting anything into his body that he has not specifically approved before hand. I don't care what Cosmo says, some things are simply not pleasant surprises.

46. Refusing to use oils/whipped cream/other messy but fun things because you have 541510630 count Egyptian cotton sheets that were made by hand by the only person alive capable of sewing that pattern. They'll wash.

47. Doing all of your before bed things before sex. Yes, sleeping with makeup on is bad. Now is not the time to remove it, you can do that later. And really fucking you with your hair in a ratty scrunchie with acne cream on your nose is not all its cracked up to be.

48. Cleaning up after sex. Wiping the splooge off is one thing. But changing the sheets immediately so you can get the other ones in the washer and then sanitizing everything your naked body might have possibly passed by is not the way to do it.

49. Making a big deal out of it if he loses his hard on. This is not an interrogation, or 20 questions. It happens, he's probably mortified and you are NOT helping. Refrain from using phrases like "it happens to every guy". Just move to other activities until it gets hard again, and if it doesn't, get off another way with him. He's still capable of getting you off. Mumbling "Forget it" and rolling over are not ok.

50. Asking questions right afterwards. The woman equivalent of "was it good for you?". Now is not a good time to ask "What this means". Right now, it means he probably needs to take a drink, a leak and a nap, perhaps not in that order
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Comments

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Aww this is so sweet.

    It makes me warm inside.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :lol:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :lol: *finds group, joins*

    the 50 mistakes men makes aren't quite as funny :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    if it had been done with a more lighthearted tone then maybe it would be funny
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think its more fact than fun :-)

    Certainly come across a few women with similar traits in my time (no pun intended)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have to be boring and say some of it sounds a bit offensive :razz: but I suppose the mens one is no better. Some things are funny, like:

    10. Not moving at all. Missionary is not an excuse to do nothing.

    But some I think are a bit suspect:

    9. Whining when he pushes your head down on his cock instead of stroking your hair. Know why he's pushing, skippy? Because you aren't doing it right, and have apparently ignored the other clues he's given you. Pay attention to the signals that he's sending you.

    Basically telling women to be a 'good little bitch and do as they're told'. Maybe I'm just sensitive :razz:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    some were funny, others not!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Omg Sexulist!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ShyBoy wrote: »
    I have to be boring and say some of it sounds a bit offensive :razz: but I suppose the mens one is no better. Some things are funny, like:

    10. Not moving at all. Missionary is not an excuse to do nothing.

    But some I think are a bit suspect:

    9. Whining when he pushes your head down on his cock instead of stroking your hair. Know why he's pushing, skippy? Because you aren't doing it right, and have apparently ignored the other clues he's given you. Pay attention to the signals that he's sending you.

    Basically telling women to be a 'good little bitch and do as they're told'. Maybe I'm just sensitive :razz:

    i found some of it offensive too, especially that one.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That whole thing is written in a nasty demeaning way towards women.

    When you are young,you don't know what you are doing sexually and the best thing is to have a kind and understanding partner so you can learn together.

    Not to be called a "frigid bitch"

    "When he calls you a whore and tells you to come, its his way of showing that he cares if you get off."

    :rolleyes: Oh yeah, I'll remember that one.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm a girl, and I find some ofit funny. Then again, I have an odd sense of humour and a weird attitude to sex, according to many.

    Pushing head down is not a good thing to do to most girls though, unless the guy in question fancies a vomitjob :thumb:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wow, I don't even know where to start. The entire thing is outrageously offensive, and if I were the OP I would edit it before anyone else reads it. Perpetuating that barrage of shit around the internet is as bad as writing/thinking it yourself.

    I was also a little confused as the narrative seemed to chop and change from being from a girl's perspective about what "we" should be doing, to a bloke's esteemed perspective about what "you" should be doing. Not only offensive and unfunny but poorly written, whoever thought that up really must try harder next time.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Christ - it's only meant to be a laugh... Lighten up people.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Offensive, unfunny, badly written, moronic.

    *sigh*

    I don't mind the first one, but the other three are unforgivable.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ShyBoy wrote: »
    I have to be boring and say some of it sounds a bit offensive :razz: but I suppose the mens one is no better. Some things are funny, like:

    10. Not moving at all. Missionary is not an excuse to do nothing.

    But some I think are a bit suspect:

    9. Whining when he pushes your head down on his cock instead of stroking your hair. Know why he's pushing, skippy? Because you aren't doing it right, and have apparently ignored the other clues he's given you. Pay attention to the signals that he's sending you.

    Basically telling women to be a 'good little bitch and do as they're told'. Maybe I'm just sensitive :razz:

    You are such a woman sometimes :lol:;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    g_angel007 wrote: »
    Christ - it's only meant to be a laugh... Lighten up people.

    it's not even done in a lighthearted manner though
    9. Whining when he pushes your head down on his cock instead of stroking your hair. Know why he's pushing, skippy? Because you aren't doing it right, and have apparently ignored the other clues he's given you. Pay attention to the signals that he's sending you.
    i fail to see how that's a laugh, and a few others too
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    g_angel007 wrote: »
    Christ - it's only meant to be a laugh... Lighten up people.

    If it was funny, I'd laugh.

    Oh right, on second read it appears it was written by a woman. That's shameful.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ballerina wrote: »
    it's not even done in a lighthearted manner though



    Depends how you read it/take it, I guess. If you want it to read as serious, then it will read that way as it's not punctuated by exclamation marks, smiley faces and love-hearts.

    I read it as quite funny, for the most part.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I got to the part where it says "frigid bitch" in the first one and didn't read any further.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    They seem to use the word 'shit' an awful lot. Sets the tone of the piece at least.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    g_angel007 wrote: »
    Depends how you read it/take it, I guess. If you want it to read as serious, then it will read that way as it's not punctuated by exclamation marks, smiley faces and love-hearts.

    I read it as quite funny, for the most part.

    it's not even funny - if it were about funny little things during sex then maybe. But saying that its the womans problem if she doesn't like being forced to gag on a mouthful of cock is just not.
    I also realise that if all of those applied, the man wouldn't actually have to do anything.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ballerina wrote: »
    it's not even funny - if it were about funny little things during sex then maybe. But saying that its the womans problem if she doesn't like being forced to gag on a mouthful of cock is just not.

    I *did* say, for the most part.

    Anyway - it's hardly a big deal and worth getting all uppity about. It's a piece of text written by somebody you don't know. Woo.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    g_angel007 wrote: »
    I *did* say, for the most part.

    Anyway - it's hardly a big deal and worth getting all uppity about. It's a piece of text written by somebody you don't know. Woo.

    it doesn't matter who it was written by, it's the tone and attitude towards women that's worrying. Some of them aren't so bad, but the tone throughout isn't amusing at all.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Oh.

    My.

    God.

    Look - differing views. Don't have time to bother going back and forth with this as got to leave to catch another plane.

    I think you have taken the whole thing completely the wrong way from the intent I believe it was posted or written for. Never mind.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    g_angel007 wrote: »
    You are such a woman sometimes :lol:;)

    :yeees:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    21. Being too much of a pussy to tell him what is or isn't acceptable before you start bumping uglies. Be honest. If he asks if he can poke you in the butt, and you giggle and say no like it's an invitation, don't look surprised when he "accidentally" sticks his cock in your butt.
    wtf?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Bear in mind there is an equivilent for men too, and afaik when that popped up there wasn't any objection.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I didnt read that one, but i hate that sort of shit just as much tbh.
  • **helen****helen** Deactivated Posts: 9,235 Supreme Poster
    :eek2: quite simply un-worthy of the sex forum tbh.
    I'm shoving it into waste time.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I found it a bit repetitive and boring, certainly not funny.

    Can't believe it's written by a woman.
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