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Perception of You
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What do you think peoples perception of you is? Real life or on thesite.
I reckon on thesite people think I'm a bitch
It turns out my mates see me as someone who always has perfect makeup/hair. They think I can be a bit "theres no way I'm doing that!" you know, wouldn't get my hands dirty. (You should have seen my mate's boyfriend's face when I said I would go camping with them "you know you can't plug in your straightners there right?"). I got told last week by this lad I would fit well into Mean Girls but oddly enough he actually mean it as a compliment.
So over to you
I reckon on thesite people think I'm a bitch
It turns out my mates see me as someone who always has perfect makeup/hair. They think I can be a bit "theres no way I'm doing that!" you know, wouldn't get my hands dirty. (You should have seen my mate's boyfriend's face when I said I would go camping with them "you know you can't plug in your straightners there right?"). I got told last week by this lad I would fit well into Mean Girls but oddly enough he actually mean it as a compliment.
So over to you
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Real life - I'm still *very* straight to the point, but am probably one of the most generous people out there. I'll bend over backwards to help people (if I can), but I'm no mug. If you don't at least try and help yourself, you find my help diminishing quickly. I still have my moments of arrogance (who doesn't), and I don't suffer fools gladly.
Personality wise I'm slightly hyperactive, infectious and usually at the centre of any mischief going on. My mates can always rely on me for entertainment of one kind or another. *Always* game for a laugh, a drink or a dance
I look after myself, and like the finer things in life - which I've got used to. Some people hold that against me, others don't. I don't really care either way as it's nothing to do with anybody
I am who I am, and people know that. So do I.
I'm one of those people that's the same around everybody - if I have an opinion that goes against somebody else's I'll say etc.
If people ask me advice etc, I'll always tell them straight. Everybody who knows me (well enough) is aware and so expect nothing less. Most of my friends are like this. It can take people that don't know me a little by surprise and they get the brief impression I'm being nasty, when I'm just being straight down the line.
Oh - and if I'm in a mood (not very often - but when I got told my 21 year old brother has only a few years before liver failure - amongst other ailments, for example... I wasn't in a chatty mood) I'll just tell people as soon as I see them/get home/whatever and apologise for being a bit quiet in case I snap at somebody. Just very straight up.
i suppose these things are true, but I don't really think about a perception of myself, I'd find it hard to describe myself personality wise
As for people on thesite, i probs haven't been around long enough to form a perception i guess
There is some people on here that hate my guts who brand me with labels such as "horrid", "lying manipulative tart", "stupid ugly bitch", etc. I can safely say that there is some people who hate me. Ah well.
I'd like to think most people liked me though and from what I've been told, they do
People in real life - My mates at work (well, I say work but I've just recently quit) say I'm a "mad head" because I'm always dancing/singing and always smiling. People often tell me that I'm bubbly and always make them smile. I'm always up for a laugh and I think that explains why my phone is always ringing as I'm always invited out for things.
People who know me a little better say I'm a little stressy because tbh, I am. They also think I'm a little clumsy because I'm always walking into things, dropping things, etc.
People often tell me I'm too organised. I like things to be organised all the time. If its not, I stress. This annoys my best friend.
Other people have told me that I have a heart of gold and wouldn't harm a fly
Real Life:- Not a fucking clue. I have serious self perception problems so I automatically assume that people can't stand me. C'est la vie.
on here: no idea, you guys will have to tell me
I haven't really got a clue, if anyone would like to tell me, positive and negative things are welcome.
In Real Life
I was told the other day that i'm straight to the point. I don't beat around the bush. If i'm not happy with something il say and i was told that is the best thing in some cases. Also i was told that i'm very loving when it comes to relationships and empathetic towards most. I reflect on a lot of things, can be very emotional and over think things
That's all i can think of what people have told me.
I.R.L, I dunno, quiet, friendly, you know shit like that.
I like most people on here though
My friends percive me as a bit of a soft touch, hard working, a bit of a worrier and I make a lot of them laugh. I'm a tomboy... Aww one mate told me fairly recently that I'm inspiring.
I don't see myself as that way. I guess I see myself as somebody who doesn't work hard enough (although I'm working harder now), I need to lose weight and chill out more. I think about myself too much, although I'm trying to make changes to the world I doubt I am intelligent or articulate enough to get very far career-wise. But on the plus side, I think that I am a caring person and do my best never to hurt anyone (or any living creature) and I would rather get nowhere career-wise if it means compromising my morals. *shrug*
in real life - not sure! i think i come across in the wrong way most of the time haha. i was with my mate for her birthday a few months back and her friend was there who i don't know very well. we were chatting and for some reason i asked her what her first impressions of me were and she said bubbly and chatty. i was well chuffed - because sometimes i think i come across as a bit stand off ish.
Well I think you're very sweet from what I know.
Real Life: That i'm a bitch.
In real life - a girl I don't know very well from college was saying the other dayactually, that I come across as very friendly and bubbly, and on nights out apparently I come across as someone who's up for a good time. To be fair , it's probably a reasonable perception of me, I guess my ability to talk to anyone for hours on end could come across bubbly.
I've never thought that haha. Not that I remember anyway
I wouldn't say you're a bitch. Everybody's different.
cheers! though i think it's a 'good' trait of mine sometimes - i say things how they are. some people mistake that for rudeness.
Clever people that understand the difference between straight talking, and being nasty don't think i'm a bitch. Others might
Same IRL, too.
Hah.
I just think you have a particularly 'cutting' sense of humour, to go with your straight talking, which a lot of people would take wrongly.
I quite like it!
On here I reckon the majority think I'm a cunt, I'm sure some do like me.
Although being 110% honest I couldnt care less what most people think.
Me too.
On here, I doubt many people have any perceptions of me cos I don't think I'm taken much notice of. lol
Here, well I know some people don't like me but sure I don't give a fuck.
but quite sweet all the same.
i always thought you were blunt as fuck the whole time lol, good thing or bad thing depending on the person
on here: dunno what people think... i dont really get tooooo involved so i guess im an unknown entity
real life: funny, almost never serious (moan a fair bit though