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Reoccurring thoughts

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
I am out going out with a wonderful person who I think I am falling in love with but everyday I still think about how my last girlfriend cheated on me. I have no feelings remaining for this ex, except hurt from the betrayal and I wondered if you guys had any tips on how to stop me thinking about it because I don't want to anymore?
Its like a song going over in my head

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Talk to your partner about how you're feeling. It's the best way - a problem shared is a problem solved.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Its awful how long a past betrayal can afect someone for.
    You just have to remember that your girlfriend ISNT your ex. Most people dont cheat.
    A lot of people do manage to come through past betrayals and dont let it affect their next relationship, so it is perfectly possible.
    You dont say how long ago this other relationship was. Is it still fairly raw?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    SuzyCreamcheese wrote: »
    Its awful how long a past betrayal can afect someone for.

    :yes:
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