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Turning your man on
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what do you girls do foreplay wise for your man?
I want to give my gf some tips but i don't know what to suggest
I want to give my gf some tips but i don't know what to suggest
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how is anyone else here supposed to know what would turn you on?
would be a good start
tell her what you like... and take it from there... simple as.
That was the question is as above, it didn't have to be specific to me :banghead:
I assume no one else does anything then
With my current BF, he likes having his ear/neck nibbled. He barely has any sex drive, so it's difficult to get him going. Laughing and play fighting seems to work well to get things started, and he also likes the little kisses, but not as much. Sucking mini eggs off his stomach (i felt the urge to line them up along his muscles) worked yesterday.
Different things for different people, there was a recent Blowjob thread in which Briggi posted some really good and varied tips.. you won't know until you try.
You need to have open communication about this at all times. One evening pour some wine and sit close to each other and just say "nothing is off limits in this conversation" and start talking about your innermost sexual wants, needs and fantasies. This really works, and you'll both feel closer afterwards.
Of course, when your mate starts talking about bring in goats and wearing opera costumes, this whole thing could backfire. Unless you are into that stuff.
xxx
Hell, it works for me...
What's with all this "light kisses" shite anyway? Grab my knob and whisper "fuck me" and I'm good to go...
Haha. That worked for me!
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Lol so true.
Shouldnt you be suggesting to her things that you like?
(well, he might like it..you never know!)