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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    SIZE 12 IS SOOOOOOOOOO NOT FAT GGRRRRR I HATE IT WHEN PPL SAY THINGS LIKE THAT. It shouldn't matter what size you are and you DEFINITELY SHOULDN'T CARE WHAT THE IDIOT THINKS neway.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Firstly, i think that Geri Halliwell has a really gr8 figure, and i would love to have it. However i don't...but, a size 12 is definately not fat. I think there is so much pressure put on girls, (and boys...) about their size and weight - mainly put on from the opposite sex. The saying 'its not wot u r on the outside that counts, its wots on the inside' is totally true - however, it doesn't seem to apply in real life. There isn't one person in this site who has not felt insecure about their weight, and made to feel so, by other people. What right have we got to comment on people about their weight and size? I'm not saying i don't do it, i'm sure everyone does. But i feel ashamed that i have judged ppl by their size. Mainly guys. I think in that small-minded way, and then think about how i would feel if ppl were thinking that way about me. People are so cruel. After many years, i have come to realise that the thing that can be most damaging to anyone, is people. And that's scary.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hmm,..it seems this topic attracted all the ladies.

    Size 12 is so not fat at all. My honest opinion, i think 12 is just about right, if not almost perfect!

    and, as for the Geri Halliwell question, I still prefer her in the 'before picture'. No doubt, after liposuction she still looks great.

    My advise to the ladies, just be yourself.
    We are all made to be individual and different. <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well in my opinion its ppl like that, that make society as bad as it is today, n cause all the eating disorders that are around. a size 12 is far from fat - i no many girls that r that size. ther r not fat and are very attractive

    so 2 ppl like that i say shut ur stinkin holes!

    *rave over*

    its not illegal til u get caught :P
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Im with Mr Fjear on this 1. I feel that size can be taken a bit 2 harsh. People get upset thinking about wat others think and can become very up set! its all 2 do with image u c a model on the cat walk and she is small and skiny so u think thats wat u have 2 b like! For 1 thay ent nothing brill and thats a normal person under all that make up som wear. We r all diffrent so y should we try and change r selfs 2 b come somthing that is not r self. Wat i say is dont lisen 2 any 1 else do wat u feel is right and not wat u think u should do!

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Still standing by what i put 12 is small and ittle. Considerd slim,skinny,fin <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/cool.gif"&gt;

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah, size 12 is gorgeous, not fat. If anything, size 6 is ugly- compare Geri now to Geri then (she looked so hot in Mi Chico Latino!).

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    'Is size 12 fat ?' Well, yes if u live in a fantasy Bridget Jones world but in the real world u can find out if you're overweight by using the body mass index. Depends on ratio of height to weight not clothes size. Oh if only life were so simple!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don`t really know much about women's sizes.
    Just as a guideline, what size is Eliza Dushku (Faith from Buffy) cos thats like a nice size.

    "Honesty is just an excuse for lack of imagination."
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well to tell you hte truth Buffy looks more lke mmy size(8) but thats not to say 12 isn't ok I have met fit models who are a size 12. It just depends who you are.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    C 12 is small and jj seems 2 know the stuff!

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well i have a kinda diffrent problem im small and i feel i need 2 get bigger. Its not that im not tall it's that there is not much of me Wat Can i do.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well I have no problem with size 12 girls..I really dont have a clue about sizes so I cant really visualise it in my mind but size 12 doesnt sound too bad..

    Interesting to note though, that those of you who are saying size 12 isnt fat are also saying how ugly the smaller sized girls are..might wanna think about that one.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    personally stick insect girls are a big turn off, i like a girl to be more thna skin and bones. surely u cant find a girl whose legs would snap if u touched her attractive?
    Long live big women
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    although im a big bloke, thats prob biased my opinion
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I dont particularly go after stick thin women..I wasnt saying that...I just find it depressing that people are complaining that size 12s get called fat and in the same breath they insult thin girls...You dont think that maybe some of those stick thin women might just be feeling shitty because they are too thin?

    For the record, I pretty much go for anything with a pulse
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Not sure if this was posted before...

    Aren't cloth sizes being readjusted?? I think there was a national survey of hundreds of different men and women because cloth sizes were still based on measurements taken in the 50's, now sizings should be a bit better.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Balddog:
    Well I have no problem with size 12 girls..I really dont have a clue about sizes so I cant really visualise it in my mind but size 12 doesnt sound too bad..

    Interesting to note though, that those of you who are saying size 12 isnt fat are also saying how ugly the smaller sized girls are..might wanna think about that one.

    I agree. Im a 6-8 n feel pretty shitty after reading this message board n every1 calling thin people.They get pissed off when thin people call them so y r they calling us?

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Size 12.Fat. MY ARSE!!!!!!

    I have one thing to say to the mong that said that size 12 is fat. Get real!!!!!!!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i am 13 and i am size 8 waist and i aint just skin and bones, but size 12 aint fat at all it does look good on people, ppl shudnt worry bout there weights, if ur happy with the way u r it shudnt matter bout size

    live life 2 the full
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think it doesn't help when people rave on about ceratin famous people and good they look when they loose weight, or for that matter put it on.

    It's how u feel and that is different 4 everyone.

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Balddog:
    I just find it depressing that people are complaining that size 12s get called fat and in the same breath they insult thin girls...You dont think that maybe some of those stick thin women might just be feeling shitty because they are too thin?



    Yep must say I am feeling quite shit now! I have always been a size 8-10 (hey I'm 7 months pregnant and can wear a 12 now if that helps *lol*).

    I dont diet (dont believe in it) eat what the hell I want 'exercise' if I feel like it - but generally I just enjoy being active <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt; And I enjoy being toned!

    I am certainly not all skin and bone and I dont break when I get breathed on - hey if some b**ch in a fiesta can knock me off my motorbike and I didnt snap I dont think breathing on me will *lol

    Anyways...it really depends on your build as to how good you look in what size - if you are a really slim build - you will look fat in a 12 (if you can ever get to that size - believe me I eat like I am trying!), but if you are larger boned (like my sister) you just look fab <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    Just my little rant there <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;


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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    just wanna say that i used to be size 10/12 and i thought i was fat, so i lost weight and am now a size 8, sometimes size 6 (especially in french connection and morgan) neways i was always happier as a size 10/12 and had more fun being that size than what i am at the moment. i gotta admit it is sometimes nicer being thinner cos u dont get called fat and other horrible stuff by narrowminded shits but i prefered myself as a size 10/12.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have noticed that all the size 12 people are slggin off the really thin people, and i think this is down to jelousy. I myself am a size 12 and find myself looking at the really thin people like Geri H and bitchin about them, but deep down im thinkin that i wanna be like that.

    Sometimes i look at other size 12 people and think that they look better than me or thinner than i do, but people carry their weight differently.

    Why cant everybody be happy with the way that they look and stop looking at the media for examples of what to look like. Just think that whatever shape, size, colour or whatever you are, there is someone out there who will want you and like you for exactly who and what you are and wont want you to change! <IMG alt="image" alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

    (im not sure if that face is gonna work!)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ok, i used to be a size 12, and then i went down to a size 8 (not through crash dieting or anything, i stop eating when i get depressed and i got very dpressed a few months ago). I actually preferred my body when i was a size 12, as did my boyfriend. I mean, I actually had tits! All i can say is that girls generally are never happy with their bodies the way that they are, but blokes seem to prefer women with curves than emaciated skinny people. Still, it was a bit of a buzz to be able to go into a shop and fit into a size 8...! size 12 is not fat, and as long as you wear well fitting clothes it doesn't matter, cos a size 12 person who is trying to squeeze into a size 8 piece of clothing will actually look fatter than a size 16 woman who is wearing something that fits properly.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hi everyone! i had to register and write a reply coz i'm so glad someone brought this up.

    for starters, reading lots of the answers, dont u think that a size 10 on top an a 12 on bottom seems to b an average for us?
    wen i was in yr 7/8 i was really skinny, i always had been, it wasnt because i didnt eat or ne thing, call it a high metabolism rate or summit, ne way, i was just naturally thin, i never got ne interest from blokes and i was a size 6/8. i had no boobs at all (not that they r everything, esp since i still dont have big ones) but now i am a size 10 n top and 12 sometimes like most of u guys.
    i think no matter wat size u r, as long as u bein healthy its ok and as long as u r happy with it. u never sed how tall this size 6 girl was ne way, coz if she was pretty short then it wouldnt look too bad.

    agree with the geri halliwell thing as well. i didnt at first wen i thought she had lost it healthily, but wen i heard bout the weird inject things i just thought it was kinda sick.

    sorry for waffling on, but i just fell pretty stringly bout it!

    bye


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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm a size 12. But I'd give anything to be a size 8, maybe even a 6. But then again I'm a bit abnormal huh?

    No, I don't think that size 12 is fat, no way. I just wish so badly that I was stick skinny, like Richey Edwards or Geri Halliwell
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