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Anti-Valentine's Day

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Rachael's thread got me thinking.....anyone got any ideas for a fun anti-Valentine's sort of thing to do? What's the best (non) Valentine's day you had...with friends,etc? And what did you do? Trying to think of some fun things to do with my friends (as there are a few of us that are single). :thumb:

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Give everyone a card that says I hate you :p Not that I've done that.. hahahaha
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ha ha!!!! Awww...that's so mean!!! :lol:

    No...I meant something NICE to do on Valentine's Day!!! For single people!! To remind you why it's so great being single or something!!!

    I'm not anti Valentine's Day, I just can't take part...know what I mean??
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah I know. Just my evil streak coming out :p

    Hmmm..Maybe go out clubbing with friends but make a pact that if a guy or whoever tries it on not to go along. Sleepover afterwards!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I haven't been single on Valentine's Day for years, but last year I'd just started seeing someone and we didn't spend it together. I went to the theatre with my girlyfriends - we got totally glammed up to the extent where we probably looked like drag queens :razz: - and then we went out on the sauce and got very, very messy indeed. Fun times :D

    If anyone has had a recent break-up or is very maudlin about Valentine's Day in general it is a good idea for them to only drink in moderation. I have seen some girls in a right state of a distress on what is supposed to be a fun, carefree night.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sign me up.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think i might give a friend a card saying "i hate you" as posted above just as a laugh, not in a evil way , we have some right laughs with things like that =]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    briggi wrote: »

    If anyone has had a recent break-up or is very maudlin about Valentine's Day in general it is a good idea for them to only drink in moderation. I have seen some girls in a right state of a distress on what is supposed to be a fun, carefree night.

    Fuck that lol, when I broke up with my girlfriend and she went out with my best mate, I went out and got as wasted as possible! lol good times
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm going to a big piss up on Valentines day. Though from what Facebook tells me I am so far the only bloke going. :chin:

    Last years Valentines was shit. I had started dating a girl and i hadnt that to deal with it before and she said not to bother with anything, so i didnt. And she got pissed off. Fucking women, SAY WHAT YOU FUCKING MEAN YOU TARTS
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Renzo wrote: »
    I'm going to a big piss up on Valentines day. Though from what Facebook tells me I am so far the only bloke going. :chin:

    Last years Valentines was shit. I had started dating a girl and i hadnt that to deal with it before and she said not to bother with anything, so i didnt. And she got pissed off. Fucking women, SAY WHAT YOU FUCKING MEAN YOU TARTS

    Oooh feisty Renzo :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm going out on the piss :thumb:

    Probably gonna be alot of single people about :D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think it might be time to drink a lot and have a shot at the one-eyed engine crank.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Renzo wrote: »
    Last years Valentines was shit. I had started dating a girl and i hadnt that to deal with it before and she said not to bother with anything, so i didnt. And she got pissed off. Fucking women, SAY WHAT YOU FUCKING MEAN YOU TARTS

    Ha ha ha!!! I sympathise Renzo....reckon girls like that give us girls a bad name!! I'm all for saying what you mean...:yes:
    pill 'ed wrote: »
    Fuck that lol, when I broke up with my girlfriend and she went out with my best mate, I went out and got as wasted as possible! lol good times

    Actually, think Briggi's right on this one....when you're a pissed off, pissed up girl, it can get pretty messy!!!! :( Maybe it's different if you're a bloke??

    :chin: OK - get dressed up, go out clubbing, have some drinks...yeah...that'll be fun!! And the 'no pulling' clause sounds like a good idea too!! :thumb:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :rolleyes:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Violette wrote: »
    hmm. ive just had girly nights int past. fun :)

    Hey - you edited that pretty quick!!!! :razz:
  • Indrid ColdIndrid Cold Posts: 16,688 Skive's The Limit
    I don't think I'll do anything special, I never have. Just a day. Take a walk, turn on the pc, go to uni if there's something to do there etc.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Renzo wrote: »
    Last years Valentines was shit. I had started dating a girl and i hadnt that to deal with it before and she said not to bother with anything, so i didnt. And she got pissed off. Fucking women, SAY WHAT YOU FUCKING MEAN YOU TARTS

    quoted for truth/respect
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    pill 'ed wrote: »
    Fuck that lol, when I broke up with my girlfriend and she went out with my best mate, I went out and got as wasted as possible! lol good times

    Bit different for blokes. Though saying that I have had to console a few male friends at kicking out time before, poor buggers. Depends on the person I suppose.

    :lol: as for you Renzo I remember those shenanigans last year. I feel wrong just saying this, but in all honesty it was pretty bloody naive of you to take her at her word on the subject of a first Valentine's Day gift -- that is one of the very bottom rungs on the "understanding b]most[/b women" ladder. Always, always have a little something as a back up gift and you are highly unlikely to end up in the doghouse :thumb:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Renzo wrote: »
    Last years Valentines was shit. I had started dating a girl and i hadnt that to deal with it before and she said not to bother with anything, so i didnt. And she got pissed off. Fucking women, SAY WHAT YOU FUCKING MEAN YOU TARTS
    :lol: We're women, we're ment to be complex. I got nothing last year despite being in a relationship for the first time ever. I was not impressed with the utter lack of card/present/being ingnored in the pub. This year will involve vodka, and chocolate on the day. I'm going to enjoy being single this year instead of moping.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    briggi wrote: »
    Bit different for blokes. Though saying that I have had to console a few male friends at kicking out time before, poor buggers. Depends on the person I suppose.

    :lol: as for you Renzo I remember those shenanigans last year. I feel wrong just saying this, but in all honesty it was pretty bloody naive of you to take her at her word on the subject of a first Valentine's Day gift -- that is one of the very bottom rungs on the "understanding b]most[/b women" ladder. Always, always have a little something as a back up gift and you are highly unlikely to end up in the doghouse :thumb:


    I was naive though. I hadn't had a proper girlfriend before, let alone over Valentines Day. Oh well, no need to fork out this year either.:D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Think I'll just be completly ignoring the fact it's valantines day.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What are we gouing to do this Valentines day Brain?

    The same thing we do every year Pinky... Masturbate alone.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Meh.

    Owing to recent crap happenings, I've come to the conclusion that women, fundamentally, are completely mental and thus suck big time.

    If I fancied men, I'd so turn gay.

    God knows what I'm going to do on St. Valentine's Day (though there was more than one St. Valentine). Pot Noodle and a wank probably.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's on a Wednesday, I'll probably be at home watching America's Next Top Model while absentmindedly doing my assignments. ;)
    Oh, and I'll go to one of the banks and look at their investment valuation department. :D Wheee, money!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well my husband didnt bother last year or the year before with valentines cards or pressies, in the end I ended up going out for drinks with some single friends and had a fab evening.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well my husband didnt bother last year or the year before with valentines cards or pressies, in the end I ended up going out for drinks with some single friends and had a fab evening.

    Ha. My ex of 3 years never once bought me a valentines present or valentines card. He didn't believe in it (or cards - I never once got a christmas or birthday card). I always spent a fortune on him though. He was just a bit tight despite having lots of money. Despite me being his girlfriend, he never treated me at all :rolleyes:

    This year isn't going to be that much of a change really. Just means I don't have to buy anyone anything this year :D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    liebe

    Anti V-Day cards are always an awesome touch

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    Hand a couple of these babies out
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