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Approaching females in London

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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It seems that many people here have problems with approaching Women. My friend and I are students in Central London and consider ourselves experts on the subject: We've spent practically thousands of hours with women, have read around the entire subject and have picked up women with some of the best seduction specialists in the country.

We're thinking of hosting seminars and charging people for one-one advice/coaching in regards to dealing with women. Although, initially we're thinking of giving a few free one-one sessions just to test the water a bit.

We want to help people who have confidence and self-esteem issues, people who have trouble talking with the opposite sex and making the first few steps etc.

Could you please provide some feedback on the idea ...

Here's a few questions we'd also appreciated some feedback on:

1) Would you ever consider attending such a work-shop or buy one-one time to improve your chances with women?

2) What would you consider a reasonable price to charge per hour for such a service?

Scarf

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    A couple of things. Firstly, I think you're technically advertising here, so I'd remove that bit of your post if you want to be taken seriously, and not have it deleted by the mods. Secondly, as you've already hinted, there's a lot of competition already in this area, and I'm not sure how seriously you'd be taken from a commercial point of view (assuming that you're student-age). And I think a lot of these guys (truthfully or otherwise) will claim to have come from a background where they did have self-esteem issues and these techniques helped them overcome them. I think it could be dangerous to start trying to deal with people that have serious self-esteem issues if it isn't something you fully understand yourself (and personally if I felt I needed such help, I wouldn't trust anyone who wasn't qualified in such a field). So if you are going to do it, I'd be clear that it's not a cure for all your personal issues, just a few tips on approaching women.

    On the general idea, I'll be honest and say I think they are a load of bollocks, and that such infromation and advice is available free on the internet (the only bit being missing is someone watching you and telling you where you're going wrong). I also feel that they are a very "one size fits all" method of meeting new people. They all revolve around an introvert person becoming more outgoing. I think someone who is naturally outgoing, but constantly turns women off could get far more from such tips, than someone who isn't comfortable approaching new people in a public place. I think that a few hours "lessons" in approaching women would be far better spent doing something that makes you a more interesting person to a woman in the first place, and gives you something to talk about with her. Famous people don't get lots of women because they're somehow brilliant at approaching women and seduction techniques, they get a lot of women because they're interesting to them. They don't even have to try. Be fucking interesting, and you don't need to know all this shit, it'll just come naturally. You can have all the seduction techniques in the world, but if your run out of things to say on the second date, then you're not going to be that appealing. Like I always say, better to not answer a call because you're busy, than to not answer a call because you're pretending you're busy. That's my view on it anyway.
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