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It's like last week, I didn't want to see my guy at all and I didn't for a week. Then by Saturday day time I missed him loads so we met up and stayed together 'til Monday morning and now I'm missing him as he didn't ask to see me last night!
lol yeh. if they give me lots of attention at first i like it.. but then i'm like woah back off mister i need my space! when he gives me space coz hes busy at work or something i'm wondering why he hasn't got in touch and waiting for him to call me!
I'm not really one of these lads who especially want a girlfriend for the sake of having one, so when I'm in a relationship it's because I really want to be and I do tend to see a lot more of her and a lot less of other people.
Whether that means I'm clingy or not isn't for me to say. Never had that complaint anyway.
on the weekends we spend saturday night together as he plays rugby in the day and i`m in work
then sundays we spend the day together and go out with friends at the night
Same as. We don't see each other during the day, obviously, as we're both at work, so that's a good few hours per day apart. We do most of our socialising together, but when Dunc goes off to play pool or cricket with his mates I stay behind, as I can't play either to save my life.
Although we're pretty in each others' pockets now, we spent 3 years doing the long distance thing and if we'd been too clingy or distrustful there'd have been no way for it to work.
It's a matter of finding what works best for the couple in question. If you're together 24/7 and want to be together 24/7, it's not clingy, and if even after 10 years you still only want to meet up a couple of times a week and go back your separate ways at night (as a couple we know seem to) then that's cool too.
Girls are complicated!
Cwtch is a very welsh term...i'd never heard of it until i moved here, but now i use it all the time!! Have to be careful not to say it when i visit relatives though cos they haven't clue what it means
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I'm not some crazed clingy mentalist, and I do my own thing as and when, but I think I could quite happily spend all day, every day with my blokie. Not like 'we must cuddle and you have to tell me I'm pretty' though, I just like to have him there. Then again, we haven't been together long, so still very much honeymooney
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You're a big sap!
I know!
Thats the most blatantly obvious reason, and yet i never thought of it! But then to combat their neediness, i'd have to be more needy and i don't think i've got it in me.
Aye, I only posted a couple of times about it. Beginning of December.
No, I don't mess about, before anyone says that. :angel:
It wasn't like I was trying to see him everyday.. just once in a while when we were both actually sober, without his maytes.
Hmm. I like spending time alone because I'm insecure, so it's easier. But then, I also crave affection. I like random acts of luuurve :].
Guess I'll have to see when the next guy comes along. If he ever does. :yeees:
nosy cow