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It doesn't really turn me off either, it just doesn't appeal to me enough for me to really want to do it, and the stories I've heard don't exactly help matters.
Give over! No one wants to marry the lasses who take it up the shitter
pill 'ed - each to their own, of course, and there are as many blokes who are really turned off by anal as there are gals who love it. I can't stand the stereotypes to the opposite effect! But if those stories you speak of are the one that goes around every social circle about so-and-so's neighbour's cleaning lady spraying shit everywhere or similar then they very often are one of those chinese whisper-type over-exagerrated-loads-of-crap (no pun intended). I don't know anyone it has happened to - and I'd guess the people who it does happen to are very, very unlikely to be boasting about it!
I would
Good point.
I probably will get around to trying it someday just to say I have, but I'm in no rush.
Before we were using ID lube and that was fine though a touch slippery. I miss receiving anal and am with someone now who prefers 'taking it' so that's cool. I couldn't sit down for days after when it happened and it took ages for my bum to feel right again. I'd like to give it a go again some day but the memory is still too painful.
I must have been very relaxed...
Was he average-sized - say 5" to 6.5"? You may need it more if it was really fat and long ...
do you have any problems going to the toilet? maybe 'cause it hurt me quite a bit i can't understand how it can just go straight in.
and it's not advisable to go from front to back or the other way around without maybe putting a condom on before you do one of them and taking it off to do the other one. true, i didn't do this but i forgot - and am trying to remind others not to do the same! :thumb:
I never had to use any with one of my exes, but he had a small cock so thats probably why. Didn't hurt either funnily enough!
I just really dont like the feel of lube.
Once I managed without and it was a right 'pain in the arse' haha.
Anyway, I love nailing my bird in the ass
For you or for her?
Oh yeah? Lol - I thought that might be it ..
So happy buggery everyone.
And let's not forget our Sapphic sisters
I love it - when i did it first time, my bf asked how it felt, and all i could say was strange....it WIERD!!! - its still all can say about it - but definately wierd in a good way
Your alright though RS, you can get bum fun whenever you have sex... for us straight dudes it can takes weeks of being all weird and considerate towards our lovely lady friends, it's only when we have enough brownie points (there is no pun there!) can we suggest such fun.