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Ohhh! I get it it now why you can't get it in! Take her knickers off first!
So have you had sex or not? And considering what I assume to be the average age on these forums, I'm half-wondering if you're old enough to be having sex.
But anyway, whilst the content of this thread is quite funny....there is actually a serious point (if these kids are serious). I am most certainly not a virgin but my just ex girlfriend had problems with letting me in. Foreplay was not a problem - like I say, I've had sex before her and that kind of thing was definitely not a problem. This went on for months, sometimes it would be very painful, sometimes we couldn't do it at all and sometimes it would be fine. She saw the doctors about it and she has involuntary muscle spasms.
Basically, if this is the potential reason for your gf not letting you in, you have to make sure she's very relaxed, you get her all excited beforehand and, without trying to make a funny quote, surprise her with it i.e. dont tell her when you're going to put it in. This is when she would clench and cause pain for me.
Hope this makes some sort of sense....
Ooooh, I knew it had a word. I just couldn't remember it. Cheers! :thumb: