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Girls : advice?
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im just wondering is it possible for a guy to have a quality that simply makes him undatable in any way, im very confused im reasonably attrqctive in fact people tell me they think im attraqctive ive even had friends tell me that girls have told them they find me attractive but for some reason no matter what i do i just cant get any further than making out in a club ive even been told im awesome at k9issing, so i guess im wondering can a guy have a certain characterisitic that simply makes him undateable despite looks and personality?
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Yeah, but those things usually mean that you don't get to kiss a girl in the first place. It depends what you mean by going further. Do you mean going back to yours and shagging? Do you mean getting her number so you can arrange a date? Do you mean actually having a conversation that lasts more than two minutes?
It's always the same boring "Just go ahead and act as if it's your first love, without any doubts and self-esteem issues from the past. The right one will come, nobody knows when, but you need to have patience."
You'll make a lot of experience by let alone reading theSite sex and relationship forums. Maybe you'll learn for yourself then, that you are too pushy, or too clingy, or whatever...
good luck.
Perhaps you're meeting the wrong type of girl, the ones that just want a bit of fun on a night out. So you go out in town, and come on here, what else do you do?
Coming across as desperate - Can't stand that
Being racist, homophobic, a meat eater, sexist - tbh personally I'm quite a political person but have a diversity of friends. I'm also a vegetarian and meat eaters turn me off.
Not having a career plan/job - Don't do bums
Not having passion for anything - boooooooooooring
Making plans and not following them through - one of my pet hates
are you single?
So I want a passionate career orientated partner... You'd be surprised how many hard working people out there who aren't actually biggoted there are.
But that doesnt mean i fancy every man that isnt like that. There has to be some kind of spark for me
self-obsession, selfishness and extremely laddish behaviour are definitly things that would put me off a guy.
But I don't think I would completely rule someone out just because they had a quality I didn't like, they may have lots more great qualities that you just haven't seen yet...
So does mine. He went to Game for 8am to get the expansion, even though his was pre-ordered and guaranteed. I've made it to level 36 over the past few months as it was impossible to talk to him if he was playing, which happened to be most of the time. :rolleyes: