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im depressed plz help

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
ive been feeling so depressed lately. my whole social life is gone. my friends are avoiding me and i feel so left out. i hate girls! they get so jealous and mean so easy. if anyone has anything to help me please tell menull

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What on earth happened to make you so miserable?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i said that my friends are turnign away from me thats y im depressed!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ah that horrible if your friends are leaving you I know just how you feel mine all deserted me reacently when I told them i was gay.
    It's really hard but you've just got to join a club or something, I joined a football team (soccer) team I was really crap but we all went down the pub after and it was just getting out a enjoying myself and moved on.
    Hope you get your friends back or some new ones
    Diver xXx
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Here you go:
    Get smiling
    Get a social life
    Making friends

    That'll get you started
    Oh and there's always TheSite mob, stick around, you might like them!
    Susie <IMG SRC="smile.gif" border="0" ALT="icon">
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think I can solve your problem.
    First find out why you are depressed and why your friends avoid you.
    Then sort it out but if you cannot, find people who will listen to you honestly and not judge you.
    Keep that positive group of friends.
    Tell yourself you are better that what people say you are -m cos it is true!
    If that does not work then e-mail me. for more ideas
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    alright there, i've been through 7/8 years of depression and am now getting better, my problem was i left it and left it and it got worse and worse till i got to the point of wanting to die. I'm not trying to sound negative here the point is that you have to do something about it before it gets worse. The same thing happened to me i.e disowned by friends and it was only until a few years ago i started to see a psychologist. I'm not saying you necessarily need to but even just to talk about things will make a big difference with your perspective and your ability to deal with stuff. Maybe even just talking to people you know (i know not with your friends) but any family or even strangers should help. If you can reconcile then that would solve the problem immediately. Don't repress it thats all. If you would like to communicate more then feel free to email me as i class myslef as an expert on the bloody subject. fredelliott1978@lycos.co.uk
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It could be your friends making you depressed if they are avoiding you.If your friends aren't willing to be your friends through the good,bad,and ugly times move on without them it's hard to do but sometimes it's for the best.Who needs people who won't stick by us in our good,bad,and ugly times life is too dam short to stay with people who don't care about us or who won't help us or get help for us when we are showing signs of problems in our lives.I listen to a song I'm Movin On sung by Rascal Flatts it talks about this problem get it and listen to it it does help.Take care of yourself get new friends and the heck with the people who won't stick with you through the good,bad,and ugly times of your life.
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