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Parents having sex
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Right basically my parents split up when I was about 15 and my mam had a new boyfriend when I was 16. He started coming to stay at out house and quite a few nights I would hear them having sex. This pissed me off and although I was really embarassed I confronted my mam and she said sorry but carried on doing it. One night I had a massive go and she basically said she had the right to a sex life so tough. So I moved out. He then moved in permanantly (and they got married today, not really the point though!) Anyway last time I was here I heard noises so I was fuming again and said to my mam the next day I don't know what those noises were but you kept me awake and she got huffy and said he'd had cramp in his leg so I was like fine whatever. Anyway I'm just sitting in my room reading before bed just now and I hear some dubious noises and I'm like I don't want to sit and LISTEN to see if it is them having sex but I can't sleep...its just so gross. I know they're allowed a sex life but a bit of fucking respect wouldn't go a miss. I've got the flu and I just want to curl up in bed :crying:
Basically do you think they have the right to do whatever in their own house or do you (like I do) think its completly disrespectful and downright mean to keep someone awake just because you want to have fun without keeping the noise down?
Basically do you think they have the right to do whatever in their own house or do you (like I do) think its completly disrespectful and downright mean to keep someone awake just because you want to have fun without keeping the noise down?
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Then again, it is their wedding night.. lol
Well fuck them, this is the last time I'm paying £60 to travel up here to be kept awake by them, or rather him. I know I'm on a massive rant here but I'm tired and upset and ill and I want to go to bed without having to fucking listen to them :crying: *cries*
If he hadn't pissed me off for the last 5 years I could let it slide. But he's a selfish cunt. And how the hell am I supposed to sleep with that going on? Fuck their wedding, they're only getting married so she can get the house tax free if anything happens to him
'Yeah give it to her'
'Make her scream'
'Fuck my mum'
And fuck the fact it's they're wedding night, they're not a couple of virgins, they've fucked before. A little respect would be appreciated.
If they're such a couple of assholes that they can't show they're daughter/step daughter a little respect by not having a noisy fuck when you're at home then tell 'em they're not wanted. It's your day so put your fucking foot down.
*nods* I'm here for a week, they have the rest of the year for it. And they know I'm next door. If they wanted a night of doing what they want then they should have booked a hotel. I'd never be that rude
Rubberskin thats GROSS!! The whole point of this thread is that I don't want to think about my parents having sex! Arghhhhh nooo running commentry. They probably wouldn't notice anyway they're so wrapped up in their selfish lives :impissed:
Yeah I don't want to upset him though, and more to the point it'd really upset my mam. Grr that sounds stupid since I'm beyond fuming with them at the moment but if I tell my mam I don't like him then I'll totally alienate her
At the end of the day it's their home, and their wedding night. I wouldn't call that selfish.
No offense but it seems to me that the fact you don't like him has more to do with your anger than the noise, and that unfortunately is your problem.
I don't like him for a lot of reasons and this is the reason I turned against him in the first place because he started coming into this house and being completly disrespectful. And I would let it slide because its their wedding night but they do it all the time, they even wake me up sometimes to the point where I felt like I had to move out of my own house because I didn't feel comfortable sleeping there anymore. This is just the final straw
Also this made me piss myself.
Teehee
Hm well maybe I'm being oversensitive about the whole thing then? I'd like to point out that the fact that I don't like him has nothing to do with the fact that I'm angry about this. I'm angry because I'm tired and I can't sleep and I think its a bit mean
She's gay now anyway.
But on topic, maybe it's not a good idea to stay there on their wedding night though... are you blonde?
So I understand.
But I also think that as it is their wedding night and it isn't your home anymore, your just going to have to grin and bear it for tonight.
Your on the computer now. Can't you put iTunes on and some earphones in?
Exactly, it's not very nice. I don't mind them doing what they want to do but making me listen to it isn't on
Eh? No! You mean what do I expect for staying here on her wedding night? Ha I am fairly blonde in terms of brain cells but in this case there's not really anywhere else I could stay! They invited me up for the wedding and I'm staying in my old room. To be honest I'm not annoyed about tonight. I'm annoyed that they consistantly do it even though I've told my mam it upsets me and they carry on doing it. Loud.
Threaten to make a recording to put on YouTube.
I'm on the computer in my bro's room cos its the only place in the house where I can't hear them. You're right though, I'm not that bothered about tonight but it is the final straw because it always happens and I've got the flu and I wan't to curl up in bed, but I can't sleep cos I'm so ill. I think I'm just mega stressed and I'm feeling homesick from Cardiff and feeling a bit miserable so making a fuss. I don't think I'll be coming back here again though
Is it really that bad?
Eek you meanie! :crazyeyes
Yes I love Wales and I miss my boyfriend and my flat and my friends who are also in Wales!
Any of them awake?
Give em a phone if it'll cheer you up.
I could hear my parents about half hour a go hahahaha, good on them though :thumb:
Seriously, why shouldn't they, it is their house, guests or not AND it's their wedding night..jesus, who's the selfish one here?
To be fair he has only just become her step dad and if she doesn't like it then they should repect that. Hearing anybody banging away isn't very nice for anybody, especially of it's you parents, and it is a big deal if it prevents somebody from sleeping.
I would consider keeping a guest awake through having sex pretty damn rude and quite disrespectful to be honest. Would you invite you mum round to stay and then keep her awake by banging away all night?
HA I was about to but I was too busy writing my 2nd rant of the night about my graduation!
It's rude.