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Have You Ever Discussed Masturbation With Your Mates?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I was talking to a female mate of mine recently, and we were talking about relationships.

The conversation eventually got onto sex, and she asked me how often I masturbate. I told her, and asked her if she masturbates, too. Her reply was "yes -and any girl who says they don't is lying!"

I guess you have to be pretty close friends to talk about masturbating. Has anyone else admitted to/been asked about their masturbation habits by a mate?
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lol i'll talk to complete strangers about it.

    Yes i'm quite proud of what i get upto, wouldn't ever lie and say i don't.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yea... mostly with girls tho.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Only with one or two. Always guys as well.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    The title was very long!

    Yeah i talk to afew friends about it although its not brought up alot
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Only as part of a joke, never seriously.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Only as part of a joke, never seriously.

    Same for me, none of us would never want the conversation to go down that road. .
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Used to all the time with my best mate, discussing which vibe is best and how often rather than details like how and where. Have found that guys are the worst for details. Male mate of mine once told me how he had drunken sex with a fat girl, and a rampant rabbit, but he was the one that woke up with the sore arse. I really didn't want to know that.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'll sometimes say to my mates "fuck I'm dying for a wank!"
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yes we do. But my "masturbation life" is rather dry, I just can't be bothered. Some of my friends have more to tell though...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    We say "i had a massive wank" for if something was really good. Haha that's about as close as it gets.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nope, not with my mates. I mean, I will swap porn with my mate so its pretty obvious what we will do with the porn and sometimes when we ask what the other has been upto in general we may say, 'tv, eat, ps2, porn, net' but thats about it.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It depends on the mates tbh. There are some friends I couldn't even make a joke about masturbation to but there are others who I can talk to quite freely about the issue.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It depends on the mates tbh. There are some friends I couldn't even make a joke about masturbation to but there are others who I can talk to quite freely about the issue.

    :yes:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Male mate of mine once told me how he had drunken sex with a fat girl, and a rampant rabbit, but he was the one that woke up with the sore arse. I really didn't want to know that.
    Some male mates have NO shame. I honestly dont want to here some of the stuff I get told.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It depends on the mates tbh. There are some friends I couldn't even make a joke about masturbation to but there are others who I can talk to quite freely about the issue.

    :yes: exactly.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What about with people who know you fancy them?

    I knew a girl who knew very well I wanted to shag her, and she used to tease me about me masturbating while thinking about her.

    She seemed flattered, in a way! We were good friends too, though, so we knew each other well.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah ive talked about it with mates, not really a big deal is it? I never really bring it up .. ha just some of my mates seem obsessed with knowing the full statistics of my habits .... ha
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i have no objection to it but only if i really know the person, i couldn't talk to someone who i've like only just met! and yes, guys give wayyyy to much info!! i'm scarred for life due to going out with my boyfriend and being the only female around 5 males, not a good combination!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't think I've ever discussed it with my pals. Sex in general, yes, but not masturbation. I don't find it a very interesting topic to be honest!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    robz wrote:
    i i'm scarred for life due to going out with my boyfriend and being the only female around 5 males, not a good combination!

    I do that frequently, except none of them are my boyfriend, which probably makes it worse. Wouldn't say it scars me, more entertains!:D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I do that frequently, except none of them are my boyfriend, which probably makes it worse. Wouldn't say it scars me, more entertains!:D


    yeah it was entertaining for the first hour or so but then the started going into huuuuge detail about things that i was better off not knowing! plus some of the guys were my best friends boyfriends, i really did not want to know half that stuff that they talked about!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yerascrote wrote:
    I'll sometimes say to my mates "fuck I'm dying for a wank!"

    Sums it up. :thumb:

    I can talk with my mates about it but not in a serious way. Its just a bit of fun. We all know we do it so theres no point in denying it.

    :D

    God i need some sex! :banghead:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    we've all spoken about it when we played a drunken 'i have never ever' game.
    also once i said i could do with some sex and my mate said "have you got a vibrator? coz if you haven't, get one!!". but i have :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lipsy wrote:
    we've all spoken about it when we played a drunken 'i have never ever' game.
    also once i said i could do with some sex and my mate said "have you got a vibrator? coz if you haven't, get one!!". but i have :p


    Now THERE'S an image....:p ;)


    no I never discussed with mates, as b4 I said we swaped porn so its obvious what was being done with that porn, I think at times when one of us has been really down we habve said we are gonna "wank into oblivion" but thats it.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    All the time :o
  • SkiveSkive Posts: 15,282 Skive's The Limit
    We talk about it quite freely. It's only a wank innit.
    Anybody normal does it, so why shouldn't you talk about it.
    Weekender Offender 
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Skive wrote:
    We talk about it quite freely. It's only a wank innit.
    Anybody normal does it, so why shouldn't you talk about it.

    Exactly.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It depends on the mates tbh. There are some friends I couldn't even make a joke about masturbation to but there are others who I can talk to quite freely about the issue.
    Ditto.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    we'd talk about is as whether we do it and whether we have a vibrator or anything but i certainly wouldn't talk about techniques or anything! and again this only applies with some friends - some are too prudish! but then with some of my friends will frequently talk about sex etc when we're on a night out.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Never really felt the need to tbh, it's never been bought up.
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