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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Is it bad if a guy uses a vibrator up your bum (not for very long mind) and then straight into ur fanny? I just realised this happened earlier, im normally so careful is it really bad? :confused:
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's not very clean or hygenic. Increases chances of UTIs etc. Probably not the end of the world.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If a guy uses it on himself then imo hes not straight ! :eek2: :razz:

    ...maybe just me though
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    without cleaning it, it's not very good. faeces and bacteria can end up in the vagina and cause infections
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    me and my ex did that during sex once, we went from front to back and then front again and just totally didn't think. thankfully i seemed to be okay afterwards but you shoudn't really do it - same goes with vibrators. just think about what comes out of your bum bum. ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    jenni30 wrote:
    Is it bad if a guy uses a vibrator up your bum (not for very long mind) and then straight into ur fanny? I just realised this happened earlier, im normally so careful is it really bad? :confused:

    Yeah, it's unhygienic. I mean even if there isn't any visible poo, there is still bacteria on it that has nothing lost in your foo-foo.

    Like ScaryMonster said, it's not the end of the world, but in cases of infections (that you already have) I'd be a bit more careful.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not very hygeinic, there's a chance you could pick up a vaginal infection.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    dam....thought this was the case.....thanks guys....will definately remember that in the future....and he doesnt use it himself lol he uses it on me....

    hopefully ill be one of the lucky ones :nervous:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    anything i can do to reduce risk?
  • SkiveSkive Posts: 15,282 Skive's The Limit
    It's probably not that bad really.
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's not good but it's probably not the end of the world so don't fret.

    Personally after it's been up the wrong'un I won't have anything (penis, vibrator or whatever) in me until it's been, er, cleaned. I have in the past though and I haven't developed anything nasty as a result, it's just not a good idea for the obvious reasons of hygiene, infection etc.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nothing for you to majorly worry about. Just be careful next time.

    If you are concerned, keep and eye out for the following:

    A burning sensation on passing urine
    Needing to pass urine more frequently than usual
    Needing to hurry to get to the toilet in time to pass urine (sometimes incontinence may occur)
    Having the sensation of needing to pass urine but being unable to do so
    Having cloudy urine, which may be foul smelling
    Having blood present in the urine
    Feeling unwell
    Having a fever


    If you are worried after noticing these, book in for a simple dipstick test with the doc.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanks....i dunno what i was thinking im normally seriously careful and im not stupid.....it was my first time up the back i guess i just stopped thinking...

    thanks every1
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    jenni30 wrote:
    Is it bad if a guy uses a vibrator up your bum (not for very long mind) and then straight into ur fanny? I just realised this happened earlier, im normally so careful is it really bad? :confused:
    i know someone who did that and her bum fell off :(
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lipsy wrote:
    i know someone who did that and her bum fell off :(

    LMAO

    Tbh I would say this isn't that bad considering girls do ass to mouth these days??? lol
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    LMAO

    Tbh I would say this isn't that bad considering girls do ass to mouth these days??? lol

    :confused:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Skive wrote:
    It's probably not that bad really.

    yeah... I think i did not word it that harsh. I mean, in porn (the cousin of my second degree aunt, whose godfather has a daughter, whose.....) you see all the time chicks getting railed from behind and the getting it into the clam.

    I HEARD doctors advice to RATHER leave it be, if you have an infected ovarie (like in the case of a friend of mine), but it's not like the bum-bacteria is attacking your vag with fire and flames.

    If you have basic hygiene down there, I don't think it's that wild, but if you come around to leave that, it wouldn't harm either.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ButtonMoon wrote:
    :confused:

    google A2M
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    google A2M

    NO! IT'S A TRAP!!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    google A2M

    Yeah but we're not talking about is it bad in an "am I a slut?" kind of way, we're talking about very basic infections which can be bad. You wouldn't be transferring the bacteria from your arsehole to your vagina OR your mouth in an ideal world, it doesn't take a genius to work out that it's not a very healthy or safe practise.

    But it'll be fine, just don't make a habit of it ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I really hope you haven't got pinworm: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pinworm#Habitat
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    jenni30 wrote:
    anything i can do to reduce risk?

    Use a condom on the vibrator. Changing it each time he switches holes.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's not ideal, but if you're clean you're not going to die or anything. I think the risks are normally overstated.

    You could get some of those antibacterial wipes for vibrators, and wipe it down when he changes holes.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    in porn its different as they do lots of enemas first.
    In reality its best if you have a wash or some wipes handy if going from back straight to front,
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    jenni30 wrote:
    anything i can do to reduce risk?

    Put a condom on it and then remove it before you use it on your pussy...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Everything is fine today. But im still on the lookout for anything suspicious! When i logged off i went straight and had a shower. But yeah from now on ill remember to bring some wipes with us!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Most of the advice has been right, if you are going to do it in future just make sure you are clean or use a condom on the vibrator up your bum. And if you dont...it isnt the end of the world, just wash after thoroughly. But always enjoy the stuff the you do...anal or other ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Bullseye wrote:
    But always enjoy the stuff the you do...anal or other ;)

    Haha, i did, hell i did :D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    jenni30 wrote:
    Haha, i did, hell i did :D

    My kinda girl :thumb:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    You can have an orgasm through anal you know - I did :D

    Just thought I'd say that...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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