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I Need Your Help People, Ive Had A Really Bad Agrument With My Fiance!
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Heya People
Ive had a really bad arguement with my fiance tonight and i want to make it up to him but how do I do that! What can i do?
Could You give me some advice?
*Sweet_Cheeks*
Ive had a really bad arguement with my fiance tonight and i want to make it up to him but how do I do that! What can i do?
Could You give me some advice?
*Sweet_Cheeks*
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I dunno, it's hard to know without knowing what you argued about and stuff.
Excellent advice. Works for me.
Even more useful though...
you know him better than any of us. so its impossible to say. unless you take I'm With Stupid's advice. which i doubt could go wrong tbh.
Are you two close to eachother, geographically so you can see eachother as opposed to call? When I fight I usually just take some time, wait to get all cooled off, as it seems you have then just go down and say something along the lines of I don't like to fight with you, so sorry, do you want to talk about it... pretty much just talk. Big thing. Then a big hug and a big smile and a kiss.
I don't like to make arguments last, especially over a day or night. Never go to bed angry. I have found if you let the argument go for a couple days then it has time to simmer and cause resentment. Get over the fight and get back to things as soon as possible.
Thanks to everyone speically My_Name!
We're Workd things out this morning and we back 2 our normal loving selfs!
All Your advice elp but jus 2 let u know i DIDNT give him a BJ!
Well thanks again everyone you're all fab!
*Sweet_Cheeks*
No offence or anything, but if you need to be told how to get over an argument then you're not ready to be getting married.
It's no wonder the divorce rate is so high.
Did you have a good hard fuck like every other couple in the world does?
Yeah, I agree. Maybe you need to think about this?
My fiance & I are getting married in bout 5 years times!
We're Deeply in love and thats all that matters in my eyes!
November 28, 1989
Age:
17
I wondered how you knew they were getting married.
Then I remembered what fiance meant.
[QUOTE-Kermit]It's no wonder the divorce rate is so high. [/QUOTE]
Keep them coming thats what I say, I need the work young man!
To the OP, can you just explain why you are engaged now, but not planning on marrying for another 5 years?
ETA: not quite sure why that won't quote properly, when i go to edit QUOTE is quote, and wont change...oh well
However i will let the OP off as she is clearly having a delisional love will conquer all, look at me I'm engaged, teenage moment so let her be......
(sorry to be synical but at the age of 29 I only have 3 friends who are still going out with the same person who they were with at 17 and I suspect thats higher than the average and I know SOOO many people who got engaged just for the sake of it)
:yes: Agreed. Along with feeling SO very grown up.
Im going to stop whinging, and go and have a ciggie
Well its mine and mi fiances furture and we want it to be the best together!
And im at college atm studying Hairdressing and i want to complete mi course before and he wants me to as well so that i can get the career i want, We're currently looking for a place to rent together, And Im also going to be doing my driving lessons soon to, He also wants to get a better job with better money cause we want to save up so we can ave we wedding we want thats why we're not getting married for another 5 years! Ok does that answer your question!
*Sweet_Cheeks*
What Do You Mean By That Matt?
Are any of them still with them now nearly 5 years later? Are they fuck.
Anyway thats got nothing to do with the question. Just had to say it.
26?!
Well then why does he need to wait 5 years? I can understand why she would, as shes quite young but him? People these days :rolleyes:
A ring on your finger for an extra 4 years doesn't prove anything.