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ripped fanny?
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on new years eve i had sex this guy.
i think he might have ripped my minge or summink. :yuck:
we didnt do anything out of the ordinary. something hurt when he was fingerin me. he put about 3 fingers up there though.
then we had sex then half way through i felt this sharp pain and there was lots of blood.
what happend? has this happened to anyone else?
:shocking:
i think he might have ripped my minge or summink. :yuck:
we didnt do anything out of the ordinary. something hurt when he was fingerin me. he put about 3 fingers up there though.
then we had sex then half way through i felt this sharp pain and there was lots of blood.
what happend? has this happened to anyone else?
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What is it like now? Sore? Bleeding?
Get yourself to a doctor!!
i tried having sex today and it was too sore. i had to get him to stop because it was stinging lots.
Finding it hard to believe you are serious. If it was and is so sore why did you even attempt to have sex before you seeked medical advice?
Get yourself to the doctors tomorrow no fail. Emergency appointment.
i didnt want to let the guy down by not giving him what he wanted.
If it's not too personal can i ask if that was your first time?
i don't understand :crying:
could it that we were having rough sex and i was too dry?
that doesnt explain blood though :chin:
I'd advise visiting a doctor. If thats going to be an issue though, I'd avoid having sex for a while until you have healed.
anyway..
if you was having rough sex and you was really dry then it is possible he ripped a bit of flesh. just stay away from sex until it heals and use some lube next time.
I second this. :yes:
Third, indeed :yes:
Go to a doctor, love. No point asking medical questions on the net while your bleeding and sore.. Delaying treatment can only make it worse. So go!
You don't want it still hurting and stinging 9 months later.
Trust me. It's not fun.
And yeh, I got ripped by too many fingers. It didn't hurt til...er...Idon'tknow, but I know that I didn't realise it had happened til we were having sex and he pulled out for a second and there was blood all over the condom. (Note: shouting "WHAT THE HELL HAVE YOU DONE TO ME?!" does not do wonders for guy's self esteem >.<).
It hurts for me to have sex now...pretty much every time. Which is incredibly frustrating for me, and my boyfriend (especially considering he was not the guy who did it to me).
So go and see if the doctor can do anything. Or just refrain from having sex for a fe weeks (yeh, weeks, not days...and at some point, if it keeps getting worse, I'll have to try this method as well
Lady garden :flirt:
yes, chances are it its a tear or cut inside caused from going too hard or not being lubed enough for the action so to speak. It does happen.
let it heal a bit, if you must have sex, get him to focus on your clit and other areas or if you must have penetration, try a bit of anal but definately dont go rough on that!
I've got to agree with everyone else, doctor's sounds like a good idea to me. And I wouldn't have sex for a bit, if it is like a cut or something, your " lady garden " hopefully just needs some time to heal.
I AGREE :yes: :yes:
you dont need to go to the doctor
nearly everyone will get a tear in their fanny
there is a bit of skin that protects your fanny and covers it but does not completely cover it.. when you lose your virginity people call it poping the cherry becuase this is went this bit of skin usually tears
you have nothing to worry about just leave it a couple of days and it should heal up fine
you shouldnt of had sex the day after because his penius would rub againt the tear and just irritate it more and re open the tear
look at it in the mirror.. if it is a large tear then go to the doctors because they can stitch it up
but it could rip agian in the future if you do that
you have nothing to worry about
hope this helps