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Ever Feel Like You Are Dating Your Friends?! Grrrr
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The arguements get so petty and ridiculous when there was nothing to argue about in the first place! Stress all for nothing! Just ruin a night, especially New Years for the hell of it!
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i know a group of very catty girls though who just bitch about each other and stir up shit all the time, every time they go out, even to the pub theres an argument. i couldn't handle that coz im quite passive really
Wierd because all that's happened is that I've matured and done more stuff.
If you disagree that much then i'd say you dont really get on and its not much of a friendship!
Id hate to have to pussyfoot around my friends to prevent arguments starting, and id hate for my friends to be arguing around me.
Well after last night there are certain people who i never want to fucking see again, have had enough of them and can't be arsed anymore. arggh!!!!!
i know what you mean. ive had to have a long think about a few of mine too
grrr, how pathetic. I hate it when people try and stop you from being yourself and trying to make out your heartfelt beliefs and politics are crap.
Hes the stupid one. Dont take it to heart!!!
I can speak only for myself, but I had a lot more convenient times with my male friends too. Of course girls aren't walking trouble a priori, but girls are like dry straw and boys like wet leaves and you are playing with a lit match.
Without generalization from my own experience.
More to the topic, i think it's more individual than it is about the sex. I find that there's a wide variety of people in my social circle who can (a) be total assholes all the time and refuse to accept the truth in the arguments and continue for the sake of their, already lost, dignity i guess (b) are friendly and don't go down that road. I guess it's just all about getting the right friends and many people can be unlucky and get the wrong ones. IMO either dump them or solve the issue, the friendship sucks anyway.