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The first threesome I had just kind of... happened, after taking mushies with two of my boy friends. Other than my head being completely fucked the next morning I have no regrets about that one. I think if that hadn't happened (and been fun) then I'd never have considered it in the context of an actual relationship. I think the thing I always had to think about when introducing a third person into the bedroom was to work out whether I'd be better able to deal with bringing a friend in there, or a "stranger". One caveat, anyone considering it should bear in mind that it may well be thrown back in your face every single time you argue with your signifigant other... even if they suggested, planned and orchestrated the entire thing and brought a pair of cheerleading pom poms with them on the day :chin:
I do think it's a lot more common to have threesomes/group sex than most people would think, though maybe it's that I know a big bunch of liberated sex-addicts ha ha. Before my best pal went back to Oz she had a married couple she used to "see" fairly regularly, but on the surface she was straight-laced and reserved as they come. I think the saying is "lady on the streets but a freak in the bed"
You had two boyfriends at the same time? And they didn't mind that they were sharing you with someone else relationship-wise and sexually? Is it wierd of me to say that even if I was on mushrooms I would hate that? I'd never be able to share a girlfriend with anyone, it just doesn't seem right to me.
Even I don't have the brass neck to try and get away with that
Lol ooooh ok, sorry!
Yeah I mean the idea of 3-somes and girls who are sluts and sleep around really turns me on, and I mean REALLY turns me on but not if the girl was my girlfriend. As soon as I'm in a relationship with someone I really start caring about them and want them to be mine and no one elses lol.
My kind of girl! :thumb:
What remark?
although this guy at the moment is trying to get me to be with him and another girl but i dont think i will though i would be up for a 3some with 2 guys i liked:)
Don't think I'm confident enough for another girl to be involved... but then I think my threesome days are over!
would be up for a MMF in the right situation too.
Im not over keen on the idea of threesomes anyway.
But why are they over?
You jammy cow
platonic indeed :chin: :razz:
Though do like watching gangbangs where a girl gets fucked by many guys, something bout sluts that turns me on.
A lot single women in the swinging/casual sex with other couples/etc scene are like gold dust.
I wouldn't want one whilst in a relationship though.
I wouldn't really mind which one. My first choice would be MMF but I wouldn't mind MFF.
Because... well, I haven't ever met the right kind of people to be doing that with again!
and I would do mmf but the female could never be y gf or wife or antyhing like that, it would have to be a random or mutal friend or something like that.
I can see the fun in being naked and fooling around with two other people, but sex for me is more of a one-to-one thing. It's more intimate that way.
I'm really not sure, a friend of mine will know more about this, I'll ask him when I get the chance! I think a lot of it has to do with the fact that if a single woman wants casual sex, she can find it easily if she socialises regularly in bars and clubs etc, so she might not want to waste her time in finding couples/bi-single women in the various channels such as swinging parties etc. The party my partner and I went to recently will not allow single men to apply, only single women, or a couple (and one of them must be a woman), and there were far more couples than women. Although I think the majority of swingers don't mind that since they're more likely to go with other couples. I prefer threesomes with another woman myself!