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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's a funny one, threesomes can be a LOT of fun I guess. I've definitely found it completely depends on the company you're keeping as to whether you end up just being spitroasted and then spat out at the other side literally feeling like a piece of meat. Because it can be something that is an enormous amount of fun and really enlightening, and within the context of a relationship it can be very strengthening. To the sexual side of your relationship, anyway.

    The first threesome I had just kind of... happened, after taking mushies with two of my boy friends. Other than my head being completely fucked the next morning I have no regrets about that one. I think if that hadn't happened (and been fun) then I'd never have considered it in the context of an actual relationship. I think the thing I always had to think about when introducing a third person into the bedroom was to work out whether I'd be better able to deal with bringing a friend in there, or a "stranger". One caveat, anyone considering it should bear in mind that it may well be thrown back in your face every single time you argue with your signifigant other... even if they suggested, planned and orchestrated the entire thing and brought a pair of cheerleading pom poms with them on the day :chin:

    I do think it's a lot more common to have threesomes/group sex than most people would think, though maybe it's that I know a big bunch of liberated sex-addicts ha ha. Before my best pal went back to Oz she had a married couple she used to "see" fairly regularly, but on the surface she was straight-laced and reserved as they come. I think the saying is "lady on the streets but a freak in the bed" ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    briggi wrote:

    The first threesome I had just kind of... happened, after taking mushies with two of my boy friends.

    You had two boyfriends at the same time? And they didn't mind that they were sharing you with someone else relationship-wise and sexually? Is it wierd of me to say that even if I was on mushrooms I would hate that? I'd never be able to share a girlfriend with anyone, it just doesn't seem right to me.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    God no, I meant boy friends in the platonic sense rather than boyfriends... note the all important space there :p

    Even I don't have the brass neck to try and get away with that ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    briggi wrote:
    God no, I meant boy friends in the platonic sense rather than boyfriends... note the all important space there :p

    Even I don't have the brass neck to try and get away with that ;)

    Lol ooooh ok, sorry!

    Yeah I mean the idea of 3-somes and girls who are sluts and sleep around really turns me on, and I mean REALLY turns me on but not if the girl was my girlfriend. As soon as I'm in a relationship with someone I really start caring about them and want them to be mine and no one elses lol.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I wouldnt be quite sure how to take that last remark if I was briggi :chin:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    mmf
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    jenni30 wrote:
    mmf

    My kind of girl! :thumb:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I wouldnt be quite sure how to take that last remark if I was briggi :chin:

    What remark?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    FMM- just cause i thinks i'd have more fun and get more attention:) :p hehe
    although this guy at the moment is trying to get me to be with him and another girl but i dont think i will though i would be up for a 3some with 2 guys i liked:)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    RubberSkin wrote:
    MMM yes please.
    MMF I'll make the tea
    MFF I'll just watch the telly thanks
    FFF I'm going out :D
    :lol: You never fail to make me laugh.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've only ever done MMF - and on the one occasion, MMMF. :o

    Don't think I'm confident enough for another girl to be involved... but then I think my threesome days are over!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    FFM would be first choice.

    would be up for a MMF in the right situation too.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Bullseye wrote:
    I am bored...so...here is a question;

    What is your prefered choice of three some?

    Male, Female, Female?
    Male, Male, Female?
    Male, Male, Male?
    Female, Female, Female?

    To answer my own question, i am torn between 2 women and myself or myself a woman and another guy. Both are fun and you can do loads in each...DP with 2 guys involved, but with 2 women...It's TWO women! :naughty:
    I wouldnt want to share a women with another man. lol So I would go with me, female, female.

    Im not over keen on the idea of threesomes anyway.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I've only ever done MMF - and on the one occasion, MMMF. :o

    but then I think my threesome days are over!

    :love:

    But why are they over?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    and on the one occasion, MMMF. :o

    You jammy cow :D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'd prefer MMF, or more like MMMMMF. But i'm sure i'd do MFF as well.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    briggi wrote:
    God no, I meant boy friends in the platonic sense rather than boyfriends... note the all important space there :p

    platonic indeed :chin: :razz:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i don't like the idea whichever way i think of it.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well...at the moment i really like the idea of mfF (big f is me being is control!:D ) but MMF or FFF would be very nice....but very unlikely....what does a girls have to do these days to get another girl for casual sex with her and her partner...:p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    MFF.

    Though do like watching gangbangs where a girl gets fucked by many guys, something bout sluts that turns me on. :naughty:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    what does a girls have to do these days to get another girl for casual sex with her and her partner...

    A lot :(;) single women in the swinging/casual sex with other couples/etc scene are like gold dust.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'd love to have a threesome. I really really want one but hey, its never gonna happen is it?

    I wouldn't want one whilst in a relationship though.

    I wouldn't really mind which one. My first choice would be MMF but I wouldn't mind MFF.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Bullseye wrote:
    :love:

    But why are they over?

    Because... well, I haven't ever met the right kind of people to be doing that with again!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    mff

    and I would do mmf but the female could never be y gf or wife or antyhing like that, it would have to be a random or mutal friend or something like that.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I suppose I'm elligible for MMM, MMF or MFF - I've only done the first of these, had some kind of an arranged meet a few months ago, and I've got to say I didn't really enjoy it. It's harder than you might expect when you're the third person, the addition to the couple, because the other two know you less and explore. It means you have to be involved all the time and, well, I found myself torn, I couldn't figure out who to pay attention to.

    I can see the fun in being naked and fooling around with two other people, but sex for me is more of a one-to-one thing. It's more intimate that way.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    PussyKatty wrote:
    Why do you think that is?

    I think if it was me I may not like the idea of going with a couple cos I would think they would be lovey dovey and I'd feel left out.

    I'm really not sure, a friend of mine will know more about this, I'll ask him when I get the chance! I think a lot of it has to do with the fact that if a single woman wants casual sex, she can find it easily if she socialises regularly in bars and clubs etc, so she might not want to waste her time in finding couples/bi-single women in the various channels such as swinging parties etc. The party my partner and I went to recently will not allow single men to apply, only single women, or a couple (and one of them must be a woman), and there were far more couples than women. Although I think the majority of swingers don't mind that since they're more likely to go with other couples. I prefer threesomes with another woman myself!
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