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Not always ... sometimes a quick shag is just as pleasurable as taking your time.
If you think that you most probably will be.
Is this girl your girlfriend that you will be sleeping with?
You seem SO worried about it all and i see no reason to be. Everybody has a first time and it most likely won't be what you expect but once it's over and done with that worry dissapears and you can begin to experiment and find out what is best for the both of you.
I'm sure she won't be expecting a mind blowing experience and if she is a decent enough girl she won't be bothered if you aren't up to scratch or not.
Relax and just go along with what feel right. Sex is a natural thing and what to do will come naturally to you when the time comes. Just enjoy it whilst it lasts!
:yes: and if you've been together that long you have a fair chance of knowing what makes one another tick anyway.
When I first had sex, we'd been together for a bit so knew eachs other's bodies pretty well and - even more important -as we knew and loved and trusted each other, a lot of the 'first time' pressure to perform just wasn't there and we could laugh at silly things like him falling out of me etc. First time sex is never going to be technically mindblowing or magical, but it can be pretty magical knowing you've shared such an intimate moment and with practice the best is still to come!
Just hope she likes it. I am looking forward to it now. Seeing how randy and turned on she can get.
i have practiced a few times - sop hopefully putting it on wont be a problem!
May i ask how old you are?
In your hand at all times, just to be prepared!
Failing that the bedside tabe, on the floor by the bed, top drawer of bedside table, in your shoe next to the bed....
Just wanna make her happy, and if she happy I will be too!
Anyhow Good Luck!
I am trying to focus on her cuz I want my performance to be right for her!
No of course not, but there is alot of information on the internet and at the age of 25 i would have thought conversations with friends would have been discussed with friends in the past and you'd have know your stuff.
Nothing wrong with not that is just my opinion.
Chances are she'll tell you when she wants you in there anyway. I sometimes get fed up with my boyfriend trying to take his time over things and want him right then.
So I just keep going till she says otherwise?
You can always ask her, or she will tell you. Or just go with what feels right for you, sometimes a girl like the man to take control of the situation.
Why don't you talk to her about it beforehand?
If that bothers you then get her to put it on for you
I'm sure that she will appreciate this very much even if you do suck at it, but the fact that you're trying will add to her pleasure. If she leaves you becuase you're no good in bed and you really do try and she means alot to you then she really isnt worth your time.
In anycase, all the best to you, just try and enjoy yourself and go with the flow.