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It's alright mate, I got red hair too and proud of it.
Not the bright orange colour I should add though.
Has a nice butt: On
Has big boobs: Ok
Plays musical instrument: Ok
Is shorter than you: Ok
Same height as you: Ok
Is taller than you: Off
Has green eyes: On
Has blue eyes: On
Has brown eyes: Ok
Has hazel eyes: Ok
Has long hair: On
Has med. hair: On
Has short hair: Off
Drinks alcohol: On
Smokes cigs: Ok
Smokes weed: On...purely because she would fit in with my lifestyle perfectly
Has blonde hair: On
Has brown hair: On
Has black hair: Ok
Has red hair: Ok
Works out: Off
Smiles: On
Calls you just to say hi: On
Creative: On
Compliments you: On
Wears jewelry: Ok
Has bigger feet than you: Off
Has smaller feet than you: On
Smiles when you walk in the room: On
Belly piercing: On
Doesn't party: Off...definately off!
Likes to party: On...definately on!
Wants to party: On...yeaaaaaaaaahhhaaaaa!
Laughs a lot: On
Funny: On
skinny: On
Thick: Off
fat: Off
Tattoos: Ok
Honest and open: On
Licks lips: Ok
hugs from behind: Ok
About guys: Turned ON, OFF or OK
Is taller than you: On
Dresses Gangster: Off
Dresses Gothic: Ok (ish)
Dresses Skater: Ok (ish)
Dresses Emo: Just about Ok
Dresses Preppy: Off
Cuts themselves: Off (I can't deal with it)
Has green eyes: On
Has blue eyes: On
Has hazel eyes: On
Has brown eyes: On (any eye's turns me on)
Drinks alcohol: OK
Wears glasses: Ok ( I do so can't really complain, but if we both do then I have a bad habit of putting the wrong ones on)
Smokes cigarettes: Off
Plays sports: OK
Calls you just to say hi: Ok
Compliments: On
Good dancer: OK
Has piercings: ok
Wears jewelry: Ok
Smiles when you walk in the room: On
Has long hair: Off
Has short hair: Ok
Has curly hair: Ok
Has brown hair: Ok
Has Black hair: Ok
Has dirty blonde: Ok
Has Red hair: Ok
Laid back: On
Plays guitar: Ok
Plays drums: OK
Plays piano: Ok
He can draw: Ok
Easily jealous: Off
Has a tattoo: Ok
Has a tongue ring: Off
Has Lip Ring: Off
Hugs from behind: Off (only because i tend to reflex agressively and thump them, then fee guilty) If I know it's coming then On.
Kisses your neck: On
Is taller than you: On
Dresses Gangster: OK
Dresses Gothic: Ok
Dresses Skater: Ok
Dresses Emo: off
Dresses Preppy: Ok
Cuts themselves: ok if they have issues but not if just trying 2 be 'cool/emo'
Has green eyes: On
Has blue eyes: On
Has hazel eyes: ok
Has brown eyes: ok
Drinks alcohol: On
Wears glasses: off
Smokes cigarettes: ok unless im trying 2 quit hehe
Plays sports: On
Calls you just to say hi: On!
Compliments: On!
Good dancer: ok
Has piercings: depends how many... etc
Wears jewelry: ok
Smiles when you walk in the room: On
Has long hair: Ok/on (but not like REALLY long!)
Has short hair: On/ok
Has curly hair: ok, depends what its like
Has brown hair: On
Has Black hair: On
Has dirty blonde: off unless like surferish
Has Red hair: OFF!
Laid back: On
Plays guitar: On
Plays drums: On
Plays piano: Ok
He can draw: Ok
Easily jealous: Off
Has a tattoo: On (unless another girls name!)
Has a tongue ring: Ok
Has Lip Ring: Ok
Hugs from behind: On
Kisses your neck: On
yeah at times I like it too. Especially because it's almost blonde when short in summer and almost brunette in winter. It's just that it's very scrubby and hard to manage and that my skin is like snow because of it :grump:
but at least around here very few people have orange hair, like 1 in 60? around that.
About guys: Turned ON, OFF or OK
Is taller than you: On
Dresses Gangster: Off
Dresses Gothic: off
Dresses Skater: off
Dresses Emo: off
Dresses Preppy: Ok
Cuts themselves: Off (I can't deal with it)
Has green eyes: On
Has blue eyes: On
Has hazel eyes: ok
Has brown eyes: off
Drinks alcohol: OK
Wears glasses: off
Smokes cigarettes: On
Plays sports: OK
Calls you just to say hi: On
Compliments: On
Good dancer: OK
Has piercings: only 1 or 2 so ok
Wears jewelry: off
Smiles when you walk in the room: On
Has long hair: Off
Has short hair: On
Has curly hair: Off
Has brown hair: On
Has Black hair: On
Has dirty blonde: Off
Has Red hair: Off
Laid back: Ok
Plays guitar: Ok
Plays drums: OK
Plays piano: Ok
He can draw: Ok
Easily jealous: On
Has a tattoo: Ok, not too many
Has a tongue ring: Ok
Has Lip Ring: Off
Hugs from behind: on/ok. not all the time like some leech
Kisses your neck: On
It's kind of like you'd bring your hands up to your face and then push away from it if something came towards your face, except I do it on a bigger scale!
Dresses Gangster: Off
Dresses Gothic: Off
Dresses Skater: Off
Dresses Emo: Ok
Dresses Preppy: Ok
Cuts themselves: None of the options.
Has green eyes: Ok
Has blue eyes: Ok
Has hazel eyes: Ok
Has brown eyes: Ok
Drinks alcohol: OK
Wears glasses: On
Smokes cigarettes: Off
Plays sports: Ok
Calls you just to say hi: Ok
Compliments: On
Good dancer: OK
Has piercings: Ok
Wears jewelry: Ok
Smiles when you walk in the room: On
Has long hair: Off
Has short hair: On
Has curly hair: Ok
Has brown hair: On
Has Black hair: On
Has dirty blonde: Ok
Has Red hair: Ok
Laid back: Ok
Plays guitar: Ok
Plays drums: OK
Plays piano: ON!!
He can draw: Ok
Easily jealous: Off
Has a tattoo: Ok
Has a tongue ring: Ok
Has Lip Ring: On (only because the current attraction does!)
Hugs from behind: Ok
Kisses your neck: On
Some odd things on there though. Not things I'd feature in a list of turn ons/offs that I'd make.
FILL THIS PART OUT IF YOU LIKE WOMEN
Dresses like a grandma: Off
Has a nice butt: On
Has big boobs: On
Plays musical instrument: On
Is shorter than you: OK
Same height as you: OK
Is taller than you: On
Has green eyes: On
Has blue eyes: On
Has brown eyes: Ok
Has hazel eyes: On
Has long hair: OK
Has med. hair: On
Has short hair: On
Drinks alcohol: OK
Smokes cigs: Off
Smokes weed: Off
Has blonde hair: OK
Has brown hair: OK
Has black hair: On
Has red hair: On
Works out: OK
Smiles: On
Calls you just to say hi: On
Creative: On
Compliments you: On
Wears jewelry: On
Has bigger feet than you: OK
Has smaller feet than you: OK
Smiles when you walk in the room: On
Belly piercing: Off
Doesn't party: Off
Likes to party: On
Wants to party: OK
Laughs a lot: On
Funny: On
Skinny: Off
Thick: Off
Fat: OK
Tattoos: On
Honest and open: On (unless too blunt!)
Licks lips: On
Hugs from behind: On
Dresses like a grandma: 2/10
Has a nice butt: 6/10
Has big boobs: 6/10
Plays musical instrument: 5/10
Is shorter than you: 9/10
Same height as you: 5/10
Is taller than you: 1/10
Has green eyes: 8/10
Has blue eyes: 8/10
Has brown eyes: 9/10
Has hazel eyes: 9/10 ( eyes are pretty
Has long hair: 8/10
Has med. hair: 5/10
Has short hair: 3/10
Drinks alcohol: 4/10
Smokes cigs: 1/10
Smokes weed: 1/10
Has blonde hair: 6/10
Has brown hair: 9/10
Has black hair: 7/10
Has red hair: 4/10
Works out: 3/10
Smiles: 9/10
Calls you just to say hi: 9/10
Creative: 6/10
Compliments you: 7/10
Wears jewelry: 3/10 (no massive earings or anything like that, just a necklase or a ring)
Has bigger feet than you: 1/10
Has smaller feet than you: 7/10
Smiles when you walk in the room: 10/10 (thats just so sweet)
Belly piercing: 3/10
Doesn't party: 5/10
Likes to party: 5/10
Wants to party: 5/10
Laughs a lot: 6/10
Funny: 6/10
skinny: 2/10
Thick: ( I wouldnt want skinny nor fat, thick sounds a bit.. eh.. so i think a better word would be.. Curvey? Unless you mean thick as in smart wise, im just assuming its no because its inbetween skinny and fat if it is smart wise Thick : 2/10)
fat: 2/10
Tattoos: 5/10 (nothing too flamboyant)
Honest and open: 8/10
Licks lips: 6/10
hugs from behind: 9/10 (cute!)
About guys: Turned ON, OFF or OK
Is taller than you: On
Dresses Gangster: Off
Dresses Gothic: Off
Dresses Skater: Off
Dresses Emo: Off
Dresses Preppy: Offish
Cuts themselves: off
Has green eyes: On
Has blue eyes: Ok
Has hazel eyes: On
Has brown eyes: On
Drinks alcohol: OK
Wears glasses: On (if they're stylish and it suits their personality
Smokes cigarettes: Off
Plays sports: OK
Calls you just to say hi: Ok
Compliments: On
Good dancer: ON!!!
Has piercings: off
Wears jewelry: Off (like lipsy, if its a single, masculine silver ring then on)
Smiles when you walk in the room: On
Has long hair: Off
Has short hair: On
Has curly hair: Ok
Has brown hair: On
Has Black hair: Ok
Has dirty blonde: Ok
Has Red hair: Off
Laid back: Ok
Plays guitar: On
Plays drums: Ok
Plays piano: On
He can draw: ON!!
Easily jealous: Off
Has a tattoo: Off
Has a tongue ring: On
Has Lip Ring: Off
Hugs from behind: On (I love it when guys do that tbh)
Kisses your neck: ON! (who wouldn't be turned on by this?)
Dresses Gangster: Off
Dresses Gothic: Ok
Dresses Skater: Ok
Dresses Emo: ok
Dresses Preppy: on
Cuts themselves: off
Has green eyes: On
Has blue eyes: ok
Has hazel eyes: on
Has brown eyes: On
Drinks alcohol: On
Wears glasses: Ok
Smokes cigarettes: OK
Plays sports: OK
Calls you just to say hi: Ok
Compliments: On
Good dancer: OK
Has piercings: ON!!!
Wears jewelry: Ok
Smiles when you walk in the room: On
Has long hair: Ok
Has short hair: Ok
Has curly hair: On
Has brown hair: On
Has Black hair: On
Has dirty blonde: Ok
Has Red hair: Off
Laid back: On
Plays guitar: Ok
Plays drums: OK
Plays piano: On
He can draw: On
Easily jealous: Ok
Has a tattoo: On
Has a tongue ring: Ok
Has Lip Ring: Ok
Hugs from behind: Ok
Kisses your neck: On
Dresses Gangster: Off
Dresses Gothic: Off
Dresses Skater: Off
Dresses Emo: Off
Dresses Preppy: Off
Cuts themselves: Off
Has green eyes: On
Has blue eyes: On
Has hazel eyes: Ok
Has brown eyes: Ok
Drinks alcohol: On
Wears glasses: Ok
Smokes cigarettes: Ok
Plays sports: On
Calls you just to say hi: Off
Compliments: On
Good dancer: ON!
Has piercings: Ok
Wears jewelry: Ok
Smiles when you walk in the room: On
Has long hair: On
Has short hair: Ok
Has curly hair: On
Has brown hair: Ok
Has Black hair: On
Has dirty blonde: On
Has Red hair: Ok
Laid back: On
Plays guitar: On
Plays drums: Ok
Plays piano: On
He can draw: On
Easily jealous: Off
Has a tattoo: Ok
Has a tongue ring: Off
Has Lip Ring: Off
Hugs from behind: On
Kisses your neck: On
Guys:
Is taller than you: Ok
Dresses Gangster: Off
Dresses Gothic: Ok
Dresses Skater: On
Dresses Emo: Off
Dresses Preppy: Not sure what that is.
Cuts themselves: Off
Has green eyes: On
Has blue eyes: On
Has hazel eyes: On
Has brown eyes: Ok
Drinks alcohol: OK
Wears glasses: Ok
Smokes cigarettes: Off
Plays sports: Off
Calls you just to say hi: On
Compliments: On
Good dancer: On
Has piercings: On
Wears jewelry: Ok
Smiles when you walk in the room: On
Has long hair: Ok
Has short hair: On
Has curly hair: Off
Has brown hair: Ok
Has Black hair: On
Has dirty blonde: Off
Has Red hair: Off
Laid back: On
Plays guitar: On
Plays drums: Ok
Plays piano: Ok
He can draw: Ok
Easily jealous: Off
Has a tattoo: On
Has a tongue ring: Off
Has Lip Ring: Ok
Hugs from behind: Ok
Kisses your neck: On
The ladees:
Dresses like a grandma: Off
Has a nice butt: On
Has big boobs: Ok
Plays musical instrument: On
Is shorter than you: Ok
Same height as you: On
Is taller than you: Off
Has green eyes: On
Has blue eyes: On
Has brown eyes: Ok
Has hazel eyes: On
Has long hair: On
Has med. hair: On
Has short hair: Ok
Drinks alcohol: Ok
Smokes cigs: Off
Smokes weed: Off
Has blonde hair: Ok
Has brown hair: Ok
Has black hair: On
Has red hair: Off
Works out: Ok
Smiles: On
Calls you just to say hi: On
Creative: On
Compliments you: On
Wears jewelry: Ok
Has bigger feet than you: Ok
Has smaller feet than you: Ok
Smiles when you walk in the room: On
Belly piercing: On
Doesn't party: Off
Likes to party: On
Wants to party: On
Laughs a lot: On
Funny: On
skinny: Ok
Thick: Off
fat: Ok
Tattoos: On
Honest and open: Ok
Licks lips: Ok
hugs from behind: On
About girls: Turned ON, OFF or OK
Dresses like a grandma: Off
Has a nice butt: On
Has big boobs: On
Plays musical instrument: On
Is shorter than you: On
Same height as you: OK
Is taller than you: OK
Has green eyes: ON
Has blue eyes: OK
Has brown eyes: On
Has hazel eyes: On
Has long hair: On
Has med. hair: OK
Has short hair: Off
Drinks alcohol: On
Smokes cigs: Off
Smokes weed: Ok
Has blonde hair: Ok
Has brown hair: On
Has black hair: On
Has red hair: On x 1million
Works out: Ok
Smiles: On
Calls you just to say hi: On
Creative: On
Compliments you: On
Wears jewelry: On
Has bigger feet than you: Off
Has smaller feet than you: Ok
Smiles when you walk in the room: On
Belly piercing: On
Doesn't party: Ok
Likes to party: Ok
Wants to party: Ok
Laughs a lot: On
Funny: On
skinny: Ok
Thick: Off
fat: Ok
Tattoos: On
Honest and open: On (so long as they're honest and say lots of nice things about me)
Licks lips: On
hugs from behind: On
Dresses Gangster: Off
Dresses Gothic: Ok
Dresses Skater: Ok
Dresses Emo: off!!!
Dresses Preppy: Ok
Cuts themselves: Off
Has green eyes: On
Has blue eyes: On
Has hazel eyes: OK
Has brown eyes: On
Drinks alcohol: Off
Wears glasses: On
Smokes cigarettes: OK
Plays sports: On
Calls you just to say hi: Ok
Compliments: On
Good dancer: On
Has piercings: Off (Tongue On)
Wears jewelry: Off
Smiles when you walk in the room: On
Has long hair: On
Has short hair: Ok
Has curly hair: Off
Has brown hair: Ok
Has Black hair: On
Has dirty blonde: Off
Has Red hair: Ok
Laid back: On
Plays guitar: On
Plays drums: OK
Plays piano: Off
He can draw: Ok
Easily jealous: Off
Has a tattoo: Off
Has a tongue ring: Ok
Has Lip Ring: Off
Hugs from behind: On
Kisses your neck: On!!
About girls: Turned ON, OFF or OK
Dresses like a grandma: Off
Has a nice butt: On
Has big boobs: OK
Plays musical instrument: OK
Is shorter than you: OK
Same height as you: Ok
Is taller than you: OFF
Has green eyes: On
Has blue eyes: On
Has brown eyes: Ok
Has hazel eyes: Ok
Has long hair: On
Has med. hair: On
Has short hair: On
Drinks alcohol: On
Smokes cigs: Ok
Smokes weed: Off
Has blonde hair: On
Has brown hair: On
Has black hair: On
Has red hair: On
Works out: Ok
Smiles: On
Calls you just to say hi: Ok
Creative: On
Compliments you: Ok
Wears jewelry: Ok
Has bigger feet than you: Off
Has smaller feet than you: On
Smiles when you walk in the room: On
Belly piercing: Off
Doesn't party: Off
Likes to party: On
Wants to party: On
Laughs a lot: On
Funny: On
skinny: Ok
Thick: Off
fat: Ok (depends how big)
Tattoos: Off
Honest and open: On (honest to a point)
Licks lips: On
hugs from behind: On
Has a nice butt: Ok
Has big boobs: Off
Plays musical instrument: On
Is shorter than you: On
Same height as you: Ok
Is taller than you: Ok
Has green eyes: Ok
Has blue eyes: Ok
Has brown eyes: Ok
Has hazel eyes: Ok
Has long hair: On
Has med. hair: Ok
Has short hair: Off
Drinks alcohol: Ok
Smokes cigs: Off
Smokes weed: Off
Has blonde hair: Ok
Has brown hair: On
Has black hair: Ok
Has red hair: Ok
Works out: Ok
Smiles: On
Calls you just to say hi: Ok
Creative: On
Compliments you: On
Wears jewelry: Ok
Has bigger feet than you: Ok
Has smaller feet than you: Ok
Smiles when you walk in the room: On
Belly piercing: Off
Doesn't party: Ok
Likes to party: Ok
Wants to party: Ok
Laughs a lot: Ok
Funny: On
Skinny: Off
Thick: Off
Fat: Off
Tattoos: Ok (if they're not too many or too big)
Honest and open: On
Licks lips: Ok
hugs from behind: On
Dresses Gangster: Off
Dresses Gothic: Off
Dresses Skater: Off
Dresses Emo: Ok
Dresses Preppy: Ok
Cuts themselves: Off
Has green eyes: Ok
Has blue eyes: Ok
Has hazel eyes: On
Has brown eyes: On
Drinks alcohol: Ok
Wears glasses: Ok
Smokes cigarettes: Off
Plays sports: On
Calls you just to say hi: On
Compliments: On
Good dancer: On
Has piercings: Ok/depends what,1 ear,,possibly ok!
Wears jewelry: Ok
Smiles when you walk in the room: On
Has long hair: Ok/again depdns how long wer talkin
Has short hair: On
Has curly hair: Off
Has brown hair: On
Has Black hair: On
Has dirty blonde: Ok
Has Red hair: Ok
Laid back: On
Plays guitar: Ok
Plays drums: Ok
Plays piano: Off
He can draw: Ok
Easily jealous: Ok
Has a tattoo: Ok
Has a tongue ring: Off
Has Lip Ring: Off
Hugs from behind: Ok
Kisses your neck: On
About guys: Turned ON, OFF or OK
Is taller than you: On
Dresses Gangster: Off
Dresses Gothic: Off
Dresses Skater: Meh
Dresses Emo: off
Dresses Preppy: Ok
Cuts themselves: Ok
Has green eyes: On
Has blue eyes: On
Has hazel eyes: On
Has brown eyes: On
Drinks alcohol: On
Wears glasses: Ok
Smokes cigarettes: OK
Plays sports: OK
Calls you just to say hi: On
Compliments: On
Good dancer: On
Has piercings: On
Wears jewelry: On
Smiles when you walk in the room: On
Has long hair: Ok
Has short hair: On
Has curly hair: On
Has brown hair: On
Has Black hair: On
Has dirty blonde: On
Has Red hair: off
Laid back: On
Plays guitar: On
Plays drums: On
Plays piano: On
He can draw: On
Easily jealous: Off
Has a tattoo: Ok
Has a tongue ring: Ok
Has Lip Ring: Ok
Hugs from behind: On
Kisses your neck: On
FILL THIS PART OUT IF YOU LIKE WOMEN
About girls: Turned ON, OFF or OK
Dresses like a grandma: Off
Has a nice butt: On
Has big boobs: On
Plays musical instrument: On
Is shorter than you: Ok
Same height as you: On
Is taller than you: Ok
Has green eyes: On
Has blue eyes: On
Has brown eyes: On
Has hazel eyes: On
Has long hair: On
Has med. hair: On
Has short hair: Ooff
Drinks alcohol: Ok
Smokes cigs: Ok
Smokes weed: Ok
Has blonde hair: Ok
Has brown hair: On
Has black hair: On
Has red hair: On
Works out: On
Smiles: On
Calls you just to say hi: On
Creative: On
Compliments you: On
Wears jewelry: On
Has bigger feet than you: Ok
Has smaller feet than you: Ok
Smiles when you walk in the room: On
Belly piercing: Ok
Doesn't party: Off
Likes to party: On
Wants to party: On
Laughs a lot: Ok
skinny: On
Thick: Off
fat: off
Tattoos: On
Honest and open: On
Licks lips: Ok
hugs from behind: On