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Do you like Oral Sex over Intercourse?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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Sometimes I like getting a BJ when the girl is good at it! but when a girl is no good at giving head then i just go for intercourse.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I really really like oral. I think its because its more personal.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Ya I like it better sometimes because the if the girl is into you and really knows how to suck you off its the best feeling in the world.

    some girls they dont even suck the penis! they just go up and down with out sucking it hard that thats the worse.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Snerd wrote:
    Ya I like it better sometimes because the if the girl is into you and really knows how to suck you off its the best feeling in the world.

    some girls they dont even suck the penis! they just go up and down with out sucking it hard that thats the worse.
    Get an older women then. They appear to be best at oral.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    HIT wrote:
    Get an older women then. They appear to be best at oral.

    Try a gay guy. They are definitely the best! They beat an older woman any day! :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Forget it rubberskin
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think if i had to chooe one orthe other for the rest of my life, itd be difficult but id choose intercourse, even though i get much better orgasms from oral. You just dont get the intimacy with oral.
    Tough choice though.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would take intercourse over oral (giving and receiving) any day... though obviously both are preferable! I think oral is more personal in that for a lot of people it can seem a more involved and intimate act that they take more time to become comfortable with doing to one another, however for me personally I don't think there is anything more intimate and natural than the actual intercourse. How can there be?

    There is obviously room - and need - for both in a satisfying sexual relationship, but you just can't beat a nice spot of intercourse of an evening :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I really like oral.... but only if the guy knows what he's doing. Some partners I've had were amazing, others- not so good. I like giving it too :) Although I gotta say that if I was forced to choose one or the other Id choose intercourse :thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dobbin wrote:
    I really like oral.... but only if the guy knows what he's doing. Some partners I've had were amazing, others- not so good. I like giving it too :) Although I gotta say that if I was forced to choose one or the other Id choose intercourse :thumb:

    but when you give oral do you suck the penis or just go up and down? some girls dont suck on it they just go up and down and you can barely feel it!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Snerd wrote:
    but when you give oral do you suck the penis or just go up and down? some girls dont suck on it they just go up and down and you can barely feel it!

    I'm sure different people have different preferences-just because you like it one way and can barely feel it another doesn't mean its the same for everyone.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Snerd wrote:
    but when you give oral do you suck the penis or just go up and down? some girls dont suck on it they just go up and down and you can barely feel it!
    The worst is when your put it in there mouth and there's no movement.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Snerd wrote:
    but when you give oral do you suck the penis or just go up and down? some girls dont suck on it they just go up and down and you can barely feel it!

    To be honest, it might worth trying to talk to the person in question about what you'd enjoy (or enjoy doing in return) - asking for exact examples from other people isn't going to help you communicate or understand the person you're actually seeing - after all everyone, as mentioned, is different.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    HIT wrote:
    The worst is when your put it in there mouth and there's no movement.


    hahah thats too funny man!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    try waiting for the rohypnol to wear off then.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Intercourse, any day. Because I feel closer to him and stuff >.<.

    And Abbie, you = win :heart:.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i like recieving but i don't like giving as much as I'm not sure how to do it so the guy enjoys it, i don't think I'm very good at it and therefore try to avoid it although i shouldn't as practise makes perfect!
    i also don't really enjoy it either:/
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sensation wise I think a blowjob feels better when it's done really well.

    I still prefer sex. :chin: I need cuddles :p
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    advice on how to do really well?
    i know it depends on the guy but ideas?!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    watch some porn, u mite pick up some tips
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    playdead wrote:
    advice on how to do really well?
    i know it depends on the guy but ideas?!


    well according to the mod we are not allowed to ask those questions on here....we must ask our partners.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Snerd wrote:
    well according to the mod we are not allowed to ask those questions on here....we must ask our partners.

    He didn't say that, he said that the person who was actually receiving it would be in the best position to tell you what's nice and what's not :razz:

    As for technique, put your lips on it, up down up down something like that, :) it's all good :thumb:

    and I haven't had any in tooooooo long
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    There's not much worse than a bad bj though!!! I hate it when a lass just doesnt do anything. Some lasses are terrified at the thought of oral sex.:yuck:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I love intercourse, i really do. It is amazingly good as we all know...But there is something about giving oral to a girl. God i do love it ALOT! I could go donw on a girl all day long, given the chance.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Er, well going round saying "there's nowt worse than a bad blow job" isn't going to inspire wonderful results from any young lady who may have already been feeling quite insecure in her skills. It's lucky I ever recovered the joy of fellatio as the first boyfriend I went down on used to make smart comments about bad blow jobs being worse than no blow jobs. So I happily obliged and never gave him one again. I think you'll find comments like "it's impossible to give a bad blow job" are more conducive to what you want (and getting it :naughty:)

    Whoever it is who was wanting blow job tips, if you PM me I will divulge my treasured secrets :razz:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I never recieve oral.. ever, so I enjoy sex more :razz:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Dobbin wrote:
    I really like oral.... but only if the guy knows what he's doing. Some partners I've had were amazing, others- not so good. I like giving it too :) Although I gotta say that if I was forced to choose one or the other Id choose intercourse :thumb:

    Pretty much sums up my opinion too.:thumb:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'd choose sex over oral, but as for sex being more intimate... I personally feel WAY more vulnerable when someone's going down on me than when I'm having intercourse with them.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I can't stand going down on girls...I like recieving blowjobs but intercourse beats the hell out of it.
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