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BillieTheBot
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Say you discovered you were pregnant by your recent ex - who treated you awfully, was abusive, a shit partner, is currently avoiding you like the plague and also talking shite about you all over the place. What do you think is your moral obligation to them re: telling them about the situation and giving them input on your final decision?
I have my own views on this, but am wondering what the general concensus is.
I have my own views on this, but am wondering what the general concensus is.
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If he's been abusive then he definitely doesnt get a say.
Morally is always down to your own morals really. I think if I was still on good terms etc I 'd tell but if not, why rock the boat if you are going o have an abortion regardless of what they say?
Yeah I agree that he has forsaken any kind of say by his abusive behaviour, because I can completely understand that she is probably terrified that the moment he finds out he will enforce his own wishes about what happens. Though strangely I can't help feeling a little bit sorry for him in his clueless state. Not that I would ever tell him or interfere in any way, of course.
This is very true. I could definitely understand her keeping schtum if she has an abortion, but what if she keeps the baby, surely in that circumstance the father always finds out one way or another... :chin:
If she keeps it, the father should have to pay towards it, and should have access to it.
She doesn't have an obligation for him to be involved in the decision process at all.
Great minds and all that
fuck him.
have the abortion or have the kid either alone or with your new partner.
He does not need to know.
(sue for alimony)