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But It Just Went Right In?!?
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I don't get it.
I've always liked the idea of anal sex... my bf and I have often discussed it in the heat of passion and it's been something that we really wanted to do.
But after just having a laugh this morning, he joked about 'buggering' me. And then we ended up actually doing it.
It was really nice and lovely but...
I thought it was supposed to hurt.
Everyone goes on about how you need to be slow and gentle and careful and comfortable. It was slow and nice, but it went in no problem. Slightly uncomfortable at first but that went after seconds. With a little help from some vaseline it was great and no difficulties or pain at all.
Is that weird??
Or just one of those 'everyone'sbodiesaredifferent' things??
P.S Yes, that really should say But and not Put.
I've always liked the idea of anal sex... my bf and I have often discussed it in the heat of passion and it's been something that we really wanted to do.
But after just having a laugh this morning, he joked about 'buggering' me. And then we ended up actually doing it.
It was really nice and lovely but...
I thought it was supposed to hurt.
Everyone goes on about how you need to be slow and gentle and careful and comfortable. It was slow and nice, but it went in no problem. Slightly uncomfortable at first but that went after seconds. With a little help from some vaseline it was great and no difficulties or pain at all.
Is that weird??
Or just one of those 'everyone'sbodiesaredifferent' things??
P.S Yes, that really should say But and not Put.
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I have to say I am amazed you let him stick it up there after he joked about buggering you, to be honest. If my boyfriend said that it wouldn't put me in the mood for anything other than belting him one But glad you enjoyed it, I've never thought it was the arse-ripping experience from hell that people make it out to be either :thumb:
Just be aware that vaseline rots the latex in condoms. KY Jelly is much better, as its water-based and therefore doesn't damage the condom.
Ha ha ha!! Thank you
We've joked about it a few times before. But for someone unknown reason it actually just happened today.
We laughed lots about it afterwards. The whole situation was rather random!
Ah... nice hint! Thank you!
You should use them, but they are crap.
I didn't earlier... but we're clear and what not.
But aye. That.
I'm sure your bloke is pleased you like bumsex:p
Me too.
Ha ha! Yes, he is. But he seemed quite weirded out by the fact that it was so easy and there was no pain involved. Think that's what we were both expecting.
Do believe he's on the phone to a gay friend about it now, actually...
(Im a male, btw)
It is very enjoyable because the guy's penis presses against the prostate and almost massages it ... it gives you very intense, deep orgasms. Very, very pleasant experience.
My (girl) friends have never seen why girls would want to have anal as they believe it girls won't enjoy it but i somehow think i would...
maybe one day i'll give it a go hehe have to once in your lifetime don't you?!
Everyones different.
Its ever really stood out for me as something ive wated to do - but ive never really thought about it!
I've done it quite a few times with one of my exes (his idea!!!).
The first time was an accident! Haha. I didn't tell him though because I was enjoying it He said he thought he was there though but kept quiet!
Its really nice if you are relaxed. USE A CONDOM. Its nice without but seriously, USE ONE.
It isn't as bad as alot of people make out. Its actually quite nice.
If you aren't relaxed, don't do it. I actually screamed in pain once when he was a little too rough and I wasn't relaxed. It ended up with me crying in tears screaming "get off me. get off me". I think he felt a bit guilty for a while after that. Ha.
not true. :no:
i was relaxed but it still hurt.
It hurt like hell though when I wasn't relaxed. Oh dear god.
although the next time it happens i think ill wait until its when im NOT pissed and with someone ill actually remember the name of the morning after
It had something to do with the fact that it was in the morning.
He didn't tell me why, cause he didn't want to talk about it... But apparently something's up with that part of the body in the morning? O.O
Fancy stopping over one night ?
The first time i did it was with my 'first' bf, and it hurt like hell.... so we never did it again... the second time with a lad i'd been seeing, it was nice but i didn't know if that was something to do with him not being 'as big' as my first bf....
my current bf and i have been discussing this for a few weeks, just laughing and joking about doing anal... but he's not exactly 'small' ... so i don't know whether or not to because of this.. I told him no last night, and he said thats fine, but i got the feeling he was only saying it was fine because i didn't want to do it??
It's something i want to do with him, but i don't think i'd be able to 'relax' due to past experiences...