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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
Condom split midway through sex this afternoon, we noticed (well he did, all credit where it's due) and stopped. :mad:

Would you or wouldn't go you for massive upheaval to try and get MAP? I'm failing to be rational....

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah better to be on the safe side.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What she said ^^^^.

    Is it worth the risk?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yeah, definitely better safe than preggers.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yes, go and get the MAP.

    Accidents will happen, and its not worth it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No not really, half of me thought the other half was being paranoid as lots of peope seem to use the withdrawal method and it works just fine for them.

    Nice to hear I'm not though. The boy reckoned it was fine but I have my doubts, he's wonderful in every other respect.

    I do so love the patronising lecturing session you have to go through to get it. :banghead:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Scary Monster wrote:
    lots of peope seem to use the withdrawal method and it works just fine for them.

    Until it doesn't.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Scary Monster wrote:
    No not really, half of me thought the other half was being paranoid as lots of peope seem to use the withdrawal method and it works just fine for them.

    It didn't work fine for us :no:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Cheers Kermit. That was the final kick up the backside and the wishful thinking cap that I could have a lie in tomorrow has just gone out the window. Humble pie here I come.


    [rant] I hate condoms :banghead: [/rant]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Scary Monster wrote:


    [rant] I hate condoms :banghead: [/rant]

    You could always use something else as well?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Do go and get the MAP- we didn't once and we only knew we'd had an accident when we miscarried. Nice.

    You should really be using another form of contraception too, just because condoms do fail sometimes (especially if you're drunk).
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I usuallly do, this is posibly the most irritating part.

    They suggested I came off the pill when I had an operation, and recommended staying off it until I was back to a reasonably active lifestyle and was taking fewer other drugs, partly because I was having so many problems with interactions and side affects and partly because I spend so much time lying down the dvt risk etc is right up.

    :banghead: :banghead: :banghead:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Kermit wrote:
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    You should really be using another form of contraception too, just because condoms do fail sometimes (especially if you're drunk).

    Just for the record (not that you were implying otherwise) I was stone cold sober, and had even filed my nails down to being nice and smooth this morning so there was no threat from them.
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