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Hope for the good eggs!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
Tis a myspace bulletin, but thought it was quite appropriate. I dont know about anyone else, but i finding the older i get (now 22), the more women appreciate a gud bloke, not jus out to mess her about and cheat. Generally r the girls that deserve a gud bloke too... Or maybe im jus feelin optimistic, I suppose we shall see!


To every guy that regrets hurting or losing her.

To every guy who knows which girl he wants.

To every guy that's said, "Sex can wait."

To every guy that's said, "You're beautiful."

To every guy that was never too busy to drive across town to see her.

To every guy that gives flowers and a card when she is sick.

To every guy who has given her flowers just because.

To every guy that said he would die for her.

To every guy that really would.

To every guy that did what she wanted to do.

To every guy that cried in front of her.

To every guy that she cried in front of.

To every guy that holds hands with her.

To every guy that kisses her with meaning.

To every guy that hugs her when she's sad.

To every guy that hugs her for no reason at all.

To every guy who would give their jacket up for her.

To every guy that calls to make sure she got home safe.

TO EVERY GUY THAT WOULD SIT AND WAIT FOR HER FOR HOURS JUST TO SEE HER FOR TEN MINUTES.

To every guy that would give his seat up.

To every guy that just wants to cuddle.

To every guy that reassured her that she was beautiful no matter what.

To every guy who told his secrets to her.

To every guy that tried to show how much he cared through every word and every breath.

To every guy that thought maybe this could be the one.

To every guy that believed in her dreams.

To every guy that would have done anything so she could achieve them.

To every guy that never laughed at her when she told him her dreams.

To every guy that walked her to her car.

To every guy that wasn't just trying to get laid.

To every guy that gave his heart

To every guy who prays that she is happy even if you are not with her.


Not many girls appreciate nice guys anymore... And because of this, there are not many left out there...

Comments

  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    After reading that i think about 99% of it applys to me..guess i am a nice guy after all :D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    bobhope wrote:
    To every guy that just wants to cuddle.

    There are guys who just want to cuddle? Who knew :p

    That is cheesy as hell!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    aww i think its lovely actually,, hopefully il meet a bloke like that one day!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What a load of utter bollocks.

    If I saw a bloke like that I'd brain him for being such a soft spineless twat.

    And yes, I do tick off every one on that list.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That sounds almost like the boy :o.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    bobhope wrote:
    Not many girls appreciate nice guys anymore... And because of this, there are not many left out there...


    I personally don't know of any female friends who prefer a bastard over Mr Nice Guy. I've been out with a bastard myself, but that was due to low self esteem, not because i preferred him. Not long after i dumped him for being a total twat i started to see my S.O, a wonderful, kind hearted man. He has done and still does everything on that list and that's why i will marry him. Who wants a bastard when you can have a guy who tells you that you are beautiful when your make ups smudged, hairs greasy and you feel fat? Now THATS a real man! :love:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Aww....nearly brought a tear to my eye...
    Even though kinda embarassing I do actually fit most of those
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i think all girls generally want a good guy, but they don't really appreciate them til they've been burnt! that's why you get the well...more mature n experienced ones really really appreciating the good guys! i've seen the same with guys too!!...and it's not just a 'good' guy that's hard to find..it's someone you're compatible with as well..i've found that most of the nice guys i know i just can't be attracted to..hmm...makes me wonder...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Actions speak louder than words, there is no hope...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    As I got older I realised what a girl wants is a guy who treats her well AND is a man to her.

    If you are too much of a nice guy she will walk all over you and use you, I have overheard conversations of how women will talk about nice guys, i'd hate that to be me.

    If you are too much of a bastard, she will love you but become unhappy, depressed even and eventually leave you

    For once you have actually said something that i agree with.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    LacyMay wrote:
    For once you have actually said something that i agree with.
    lol me too
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    tinydancer wrote:
    t most of the nice guys i know i just can't be attracted to..hmm...makes me wonder...


    hmm, i dont understand. could you expand a bit?is it the whole "too nice isnt attractive" thing?

    confuzled:confused:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Urgh no. I want a lad who's a healthy mix of being considerate but also will stand up to me if I challenge him but never lose respect for me throughout it all.

    Which is what I've been going for as of late, so WHOOHOO! :D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Society says most of that is false. It's all about genetics.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    1983 wrote:
    Urgh no. I want a lad who's a healthy mix of being considerate but also will stand up to me if I challenge him but never lose respect for me throughout it all.

    Which is what I've been going for as of late, so WHOOHOO! :D


    same here. i like people with a backbone. :thumb:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    same here. i like people with a backbone. :thumb:

    Totally, that nonsense up there was taken from a Mills and Boon novel, I'm sure.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i don't have anyone atm though, not even someone without a backbone. :crying:

    woe is me, woe is me. :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i don't have anyone atm though, not even someone without a backbone. :crying:

    woe is me, woe is me. :p

    Well, I would love to say I have something of encouragement but I don't. I'm sorry you read this sentence, and that I typed it out.

    We'll never get those 3 seconds back ever again. Now that, if I'm right..is chuffing WOE!

    Hahaha.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i'm confused. :(
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i'm confused. :(

    I meant to say "say I have something of encouragement to say" but I cocked it up. Doh.

    Second time today. I sent a text to the lad I'm seeing this morning saying "You only breathe out of one nostril at a time, it changes every 30 seconds, close one nostril at a time to see!" which obviously is shit cause then you actually do.

    I meant to say "put your finger under one nostril at a time"

    Argh.

    Why am I not cool??!:yeees:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well I'm living proof that those virtues, all of which I have practiced, still don't matter for shit when your partner is 'finding herself' and decides that everything that has gone before is irrelevant and because she's having such a wonderful time away from you and decides it's best to end it rather than keep stringing me along.

    Sorry about that.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I am breathing out of both nostrils.

    out of one a tad more, but still...
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