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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Help me!! ok well I really really like this guy!! He is my neighbor and I have known him for almost three years and I feel like we would make an awesome couple. I'm not sure if he likes me thought and I'm to afraid of asking! I really want him to ask me out next saturday because were going to homecoming together. He goes to a different school <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/frown.gif">!! I think he likes me cuz the night I asked him to homecoming we were pretty close we played a game of life and our legs were close together and his foot was on top of mine. then at the end of the night he hugged me good bye. now he keeps saying he will call me but he never does!!!
why do guys do that?
what should I do in order to find out if he feels the same way??

help!!!
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I thought you really liked the other guy?

    If words could kill, i'd spell out your name.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    so did i!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Wasnt really paying attention to the exact details but he probably isnt calling because hes on a another site waiting for advice too, so pick up the phone and invite him round to a coktail session- in the course of the evening you should find out how much he likes you. Depending of course on how drunk you both are. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    Overdose- drop the bass- forget your name - just close your eyes - go insane...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    He will most definetly like you, i have been in this postion befor,both not knowing what the other person thinks, ask him now or you will regret later when he gets bored and finds somebody else. Just say something like ...where is this relationship going.... im sure you get my drift. If he dosent like you, big deal, you can get over it, but trust me, he will want you. Lifes to short to miss out......

    ...as mad as a scotts dog...

    ....im just as mad as a scotts dog....
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'd say from a guys perspective here he definitely likes you! Go for it you'll never know if you don't try!

    As for the saying he'll call you and then not. I'm guilty of this on many occasions. He probably says he'll call with the best intentions of actually doing it but a guys memory is shit when it comes to actually remembering to do it. Mainly cuz he probably wont realise how much missing that call actually hurts / bothers you. Don't mean he don't care!

    Hope I've been some if not much help!!!

    its not illegal til u get caught <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/mica/monkbum.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, i am a guy. Based on the interaction, i would definately say he is into you. I personally would not be that close with someone if i was not into them, because i would not want them to get the wrong idea.

    About the call thing... I don't know about other guys, but if i am interested in a girl, it becomes hard to forget about her. She may be stuck in my head at all times, if not most of the time. I would be looking forward to that call in hopes of progress. But i also know how hard that call can be at times, cause you may choke, or not know what to say. I never want to be the one that no body wants to talk to cause i bore them by calling, then not talking. Hope it works out for you! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    [This message has been edited by GTZpower (edited 03-10-2001).]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i beleive that he really really like u, and if u think u and him can make an awsome couple then i reckon u shud tell him cuz most men usually dont make the first move they just drop hints (been a bloke i shud know)
    wots the most he can do other than say no? its not the end of the world
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